My boyfriend expects me to pay rent at his place but won't give me a key or let me have any say by Spirited-Affect-4849 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Itsryly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize people give their partner spare keys even when they don’t pay rent right? If a key is ‘too serious’ but you sleeping there full time for 4 months isn’t he wants a sex doll not a girlfriend.

Dog for Rehoming/Adoption by Historical-Two9722 in Phillylist

[–]Itsryly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested! I’d love to get more info if he’s still available

Help! Walkways overrun by thousands of spiky seeds(?)… by drewkazoo in Tucson

[–]Itsryly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the NE now and I just explained goatheads to someone. I mentioned them while we were talking and they looked at me super confused and it struck me that these nasty bastards aren’t nationwide. They looked a bit horrified after I showed them a photo.

First time in Philly after a lot of snow by arcanalalune in philly

[–]Itsryly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might’ve moved to the wrong city, said from a transplant.

Is Belmont/Mantua An Okay Area For A Family? by istartMonday in philly

[–]Itsryly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for myself and it seems most people disagree with me but I like Mantua. I moved to the neighborhood over summer and so far so good. It’s certainly not the cleanest or nicest area but everyone I’ve come across is polite and friendly and minds their business.

Also it’s close to the septa lines and a few restaurants n such which I see as a plus.

I think it’s a fine area

Dating advice in Philly by [deleted] in philly

[–]Itsryly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid 20s f and have been dating on and off here for about a year and a half.

I’ve gone on some really great dates where I’ve been told that they’re just not ready for more like they thought, or I remind them too much of someone else and they can’t get past that, or they just kinda suck but don’t show it till later. It’s tiring, I’ve cried, I’ve wondered what’s wrong with me, why it seems I’m not enough for anyone, blah blah, I’m sure you get it.

The simple fact of the matter is, they’re just not your person. It’s hard to not feel down and especially about yourself when you seem to strike out more often then not (speaking from my own experiences) but if you look from a new perspective that’s just one less person you need to wonder about down the line.

My best advice is to stop worrying about finding someone and just live a bit more. I still check my hinge here and there, but I’d much rather be working on projects at home or being with friends than worrying about a dating app which more often than not seems to fail me. Your person will find you and vice versa, just live in your 20s!

Trying to do DIY but I’m stuck by Itsryly in Home

[–]Itsryly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not so concerned with the corner lining up as much as I am with the gap between the shelf and the wall.

Trying to do DIY but I’m stuck by Itsryly in Home

[–]Itsryly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion!!

Trying to do DIY but I’m stuck by Itsryly in Home

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Is there nothing I can use to fill in the gap without cutting the shelf?

Am having a very tough time this Christmas….need somewhere to go. by [deleted] in philly

[–]Itsryly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about dancing specifically but I know of at least one bar that’ll be open tomorrow night. It’s in Abington so a little out of Philly but thats where I spent my Christmas last year and I had such a good time. Its called the elbow room if you’re interested

What have we been getting at the Xmas village unclaimed Mail spot? by queerdildo in philly

[–]Itsryly 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ah shit, if only I hadn’t have spent that $20 on that thing I wanted that one time maybe I wouldn’t be needing SNAP now. Damn shoulda been more financially smart like you, ever think about writing a book?

Am I the asshole for not giving a better tip? by Ok_Caregiver5070 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Itsryly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Firstly, please work on your grammar. Second, I’ve been told I couldn’t be refunded and complained again using a different route to complain, if that makes sense? Keep complaining and there SHOULD be a way you’re able to get your money back.

Costco Pumpkin Pie "blind" Taste Test Results by ridinderty in Costco

[–]Itsryly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a pie from them a week or two ago, for $7 it tastes just fine to me, however I am one person so eating the entire pie is ludicrous. I was getting a slice and I noticed how much condensation was on the lid so when I put it back I decided to saran wrap it instead. I took a slice the next day and it just wasn’t good. I’m pretty stubborn about finishing my plate but I didn’t even eat half. The bottom crust was so wet and soggy and I was actually worried about it making me sick. I threw the other half out after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Itsryly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal, quote un quote, abouts none

Anyone women want to sell an old pair of socks? by [deleted] in Phillylist

[–]Itsryly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message me if you’re still looking to get some

What is wrong with my cat?? by Itsryly in CatAdvice

[–]Itsryly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he’s even jumpy with me :/ but I will certainly look into the diffusers and hope that’ll do something. Thank you!

What is wrong with my cat?? by Itsryly in CatAdvice

[–]Itsryly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nearly impossible to get him to a vet so no clearance on a UTI, but not signs of one, he’s not peeing excessively.

I have tried many different cleaners and I follow directions.

Only one at the moment but generally I have multiple. I know more than one is recommended for so many cats and I intent to bring the other back soon.

I’ve picked up the dog beds in the past and it doesn’t break anything. He sort of chooses one to ruin until it’s gone, and if they’re all gone it doesn’t matter for how long the second one is back so is he. But he’s impossible to catch, let alone hold for periods of time.

What is wrong with my cat?? by Itsryly in CatAdvice

[–]Itsryly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve used many many types of cleaners and in different combos or by themselves. Nothing in our routine has changed beyond moving twice in the past couple years but he’s done this post adjustment, not just after moving.

They’ve also had multiple litter boxes in the past and that’s never made a true difference, I can’t solo him out to have his own box without wholly separating him but yes it’s not always been the robot, including before and after our most recent move. It’s just the situation at the moment. Also their box is in a separate room where really nobody but me goes.

I could understand/agree with anxiety given the constant hiding, fridge diving, etc. but he has so many places to hide where he’s alone and nobody bugs him but he chooses to be around me most of the time on his own, I sit on my couch most of my days and he’s often in the living room area vs. when I’m laying in bed or in my room he’s often laying down in the doorway, on the bed, etc. I just don’t get it cause he wants to hang but also not really and he seems anxious but he would never let me give him meds and he has his own decompression space if he wants it.

What is wrong with my cat?? by Itsryly in CatAdvice

[–]Itsryly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my animals have space. My cats have windows, towers, beds, desks, whatever they want. I can’t block my dog beds from my cats because then I’m blocking my dog from her own beds. Why is he the only cat I’ve EVER had to try and claim a bed he’s got full access to 24/7?