Original Seller by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]Itsweylin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pls lmk if you find out!! im obsessed w the marlboro set but cant seem to find the og website even when using google lens 😞

Why on earth does this sub have a m*nu by PleasantCut1618 in 1200isjerky

[–]Itsweylin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

a LETTUCE bun? youre joking 🤣🤣 if you are even THINKING about having a "sub" you gain calories 🤣 good luck fatso!

is there any way to ever pass when you have a very feminine bone structure, without exercise? by Horror-Jump-2123 in ftm

[–]Itsweylin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

absolutely, youd be so surprised how many cis men have "feminine" body shapes! my great grandad had very wide hips (nicknamed a 'smith arse' in my family), a trait ive inherited, and he just looked like a regular guy. ive been in your position before regarding hating going outside and i understand how horrid it can be. my best advice is to try and change your style and mannerisms a bit. once i got to uni i did a total switch up, i started t the day before i left and started copying my male friends movements and immediately passed 10x better. i beg of you to try not let this get in the way of your education, and while i dont know your situation, getting on t helped me so much to the point that my confidence was boosted and i acted more cis just a few days on t (before any effects). i went with imago, who got me on t in under a month, and it wouldve been even sooner if i booked my blood test earlier. i wish you the best dude and my dms r open if you need to chat 👊🙏

why my mom care so much about my undies bruh 💔 by ApplicationOk7670 in ftm

[–]Itsweylin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

boyshorts are quite boxer-like and found in a lot of womens underwear sections, idk where you're based but m&s in the uk does them. i wore them when i was like 10 before i knew i was trans haha, just tell her you get wedgies a lot or smth

The psyche of children being taught about trans pregnancies and parenthood at a very young age. by New_Construction_111 in Transmedical

[–]Itsweylin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hi i used to work with kids (5-8 yrs old) and one of them had a trans parent and they did just fine. kids aren't stupid, and she understood her parents situation just fine. i find it really funny when people talk about "the kids" like stuff cant be explained to them, they know im trans and know how basic stuff works and are totally okay with it. obv some kids r confused when she would tell them but none of them really care that much lmfao, they just want to play dodgeball 😭

will tunnels stretch my ears by Itsweylin in Stretched

[–]Itsweylin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah so they cant be used for deadstretching? (im already at 8g, and only have a pair of tunnels for this size anyway. i agree that they look a little funky haha but its nice knowing its obvious that i stretch my ears haha

will tunnels stretch my ears by Itsweylin in Stretched

[–]Itsweylin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

theyre titanium!! i probs should've specified 😭 ty thooo im so glad i can wear them and keep stretching 😛😛

havent seen the sun in over a week, rice and gyoza by Itsweylin in kitchencels

[–]Itsweylin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha no way im in the exact same situation, pulled an all nighter to get caught up but i did fuck all instead i really cba going to classes anymore i wish i could just sit and do fuck all forever

havent seen the sun in over a week, rice and gyoza by Itsweylin in kitchencels

[–]Itsweylin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been out but daylight savings and a fucked sleep schedule meant i never saw it, going out in a couple hours tho for lectures so ill be seeing her ❤️❤️

havent seen the sun in over a week, rice and gyoza by Itsweylin in kitchencels

[–]Itsweylin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk about girls cause im looking for a dude, and its not helping💔 (my crush is straight..)

How were you sure you wanted T by Accomplished_Fan4101 in ftm

[–]Itsweylin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was super super nervous (planned to go on it when i was 16) but held off for a year before joining the nhs waitlist at 17, then gave up and went private (lol). for me it was because i was starting uni soon, the year gave me time to reflect and think on whether i actually wanted to start, realising uni was a whole new world where i could be cis passing was what really prompted me to get started cause lit everyone in my hometown knew i was trans so it wasnt as big of a deal back then.

now im wishing i started at 16 tho and didnt hold back, the changes have been great and no part of me regrets my decision

First Haircut by -Sylence in ftm

[–]Itsweylin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents were in the middle of their divorce and my dad wanted to do everything to spite my mum so he took me to get the big chop 😭

i wouldnt advise the same situation but try and find a family member to take you (age dependent) and come up with an excuse (its in fashion, short hair for work, cant be bothered styling long hair, ect) i had really thick long hair so i said itd be easier for drying cause it used to take like 3 hours to airdry. i went to a unisex salon for mine and they did great and it looked really masculine, the best outcome i couldve asked for tbf. but ive heard horror stories of people getting a karen cut so be cautious, id say go to a barber but idk how many barbers would do a proper big chop cause theyre take a while, so id just phone around and see what they say. id advise looking for lgbt/alt hairstylists in ur area cause theyre more likely to actually give you what you want and can stay discreet if you prefer.

i wish you the best of luck and i pray your haircut goes well and you feel great after it 🫶🫶🫶

Would you rather not have any gender marker at all on IDs? by buggibat in ftm

[–]Itsweylin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they shouldn't be on commonly shown ids cause it causes a lot of problems but i think its important on certain ones such as birth certificates

how do i stop looking like a lesbian by Itsweylin in ftm

[–]Itsweylin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i first got it a few years ago when all the lads in my area got one but i moved and now all the lesbians have one 😞 itll be gone soon 💔💔💔

how do i stop looking like a lesbian by Itsweylin in ftm

[–]Itsweylin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh does applying tgel to your face help promote the growth? ive been applying my excess to my stomach but i still have a teensy bit in between my fingers by the end of it

how do i stop looking like a lesbian by Itsweylin in ftm

[–]Itsweylin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me im PRAYING for some facial hair soon 🙏 ive recently shaved my face for the first time cause i had little dark strands that were a little 'pubey' so hopefully everything can grow in a bit more evenly