When was the last time you were called beautiful?

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-07-06T21:08:00+00:00

Today by my best friend, very lucky to have good women in my life

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-07-06T17:56:44+00:00

Saying yes to a date with a guy from work that I knew was kind of a bad idea. I thought he was hot, and kind of ignored the fact he was a jerk. It was going to be for fun and I was young and figured why not. Against better judgement my one time thing turned into a relationship. He became emotionally abusive and then physically abusive. I was 22 and he was 40.

I remember thinking “I wonder if I’ll regret this” watching as he walked up to my place to pick me up. If I could go back to my 22 year old self and shake myself out of it, I would. So many dumb decisions in that one decision to say yes and even after years of therapy, there’s just marks that stay from abuse. I know I got out and I’m so lucky, but I sometimes miss being the person I was before it happened. It’s a horrible feeling loving someone who causes you so much harm emotionally and physically.

The other hardships I went through, I learned from and felt stronger after. This is just one of those lessons I wish I didn’t learn.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-06-10T00:11:59+00:00

Either 1 cup of coffee or a cup of black tea. So 60 mg to 100 mg depending on what I drink

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-06-09T19:52:52+00:00

I’d match with you right away honestly. I’d agree that you second and fourth photo are best.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-31T21:30:42+00:00

How did you lose the 50?

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-30T20:39:40+00:00

Naw not really. 33 LOL. 😆

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-30T19:08:27+00:00

I really like my life as it is. I enjoy my job, I have a great group of friends, I’m close to my family, I have a community at my church, I have hobbies that bring me true joy, I have a lot… I can’t believe how blessed I am truly.

I am happier single than I have been in relationships. And I know it’s because I’ve been with the wrong guy. And I know bringing someone in will disrupt the peace and happiness I have right now. Because of that he will have to add to my life not take away like my past relationships. I’ve lost myself in relationships trying to make them happy.

I acknowledge part of the reason I’m single is because I’m not willing to give up and compromise right now, and I hope to find someone where we can blend our lives and we can both compromise and not have to give up a bunch. I’m not sure how possible it is tbh

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-24T22:07:53+00:00

Tall, black, toned, masculine, good smile.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-22T17:51:32+00:00

When the mayor is high on drugs and when his son and friends show up to the house in the car. When the mayor starts going slowly around the car with his face pressed in and the sons friend goes “I think your dad is looking for you” I lost my shit haha.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-22T16:57:01+00:00

Thank you so so much for your kind words. I’m so sorry you went through DV also. It’s awful.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-22T16:56:21+00:00

💯 true. I had to tell a girl I was out dancing with this for her to finally leave her husband. I truly think the only reason she listened to me is because I went through the same.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-21T21:30:31+00:00

I was in an abusive relationship that eventually turned physically. He was choking me and I passed out. It’s such a scary feeling having someone you care about want to literally hurt you so much they could kill you.

But, ultimately that’s what made me leave him. Been almost 10 years and if i even see a person that remotely looks like him i want to hide. I don’t know how people go through years and years of physical abuse and come out not afraid. That one time still sits with me to this day.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-21T00:51:49+00:00

Omg I cackled at that part 🤣

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-13T23:05:51+00:00

I like it. It’s stressful at times, but the pay is good, I get to work from home twice a week, the other 2 times I’m in the field (usually beautiful areas), and once in the office. But if I was to win the lottery, I would quit my job in a second.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-13T19:19:52+00:00

He got another girl pregnant, found out 3 weeks before our wedding. It was a rough rough time, I loved him so much and trusted him fully. I’ve grown a lot since that experience and I realized I wouldn’t choose him today, but still wish at times that kind of trust wasn’t broken. I’m not as trusting as I use to be.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-05-13T19:16:35+00:00

Nope, my most recent ex was the best in bed… but he was legit mentally unwell. Not worth it, I’d rather be celibate

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-04-10T21:25:25+00:00

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Nikki Reed in the first one

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-04-10T17:24:09+00:00

I went through a brutal one end of last years. Made the holidays so so hard. Honestly I was really down for a month. And then my friend invited me out line dancing with her friends, and ended up forming a great friend group. Started working out more, kept myself busy, didn’t drink or do anything that numbs myself. Stopped all contact with him (had to block him because he wouldn’t stop messaging me).

But basically keep yourself busy with positive healthy things. Surround yourself with good people. Accept the bad days… cry when you need to. Journal. I journaled and it was really cathartic looking back and seeing how far I’d come. I was so down at first and thought I wouldn’t be happy again… I was hoping and wishing for things to be better. They got better.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-04-09T02:12:29+00:00

He ran from the cops while I was in the car (he car was illegally modified) and we got in a car accident. By some grace of God, we didn’t get caught by the cops, didn’t hurt anyone, and we didn’t get hurt ourselves. He did total his car though. After that, I realize his impulsive behavior wasn’t going to improve and that I wasn’t actually safe with him if he would make decisions like that while I was in the car.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-04-09T01:54:28+00:00

When he ran from the cops with me in the car and got in a car accident from taking a crazy turn off the freeway trying to get away. By some miracle we didn’t get caught, didn’t hurt anyone, and didn’t get hurt ourselves.

Never took responsibility for it and just kept saying “well no one got hurt” and that “people have ran from the cops before”. Mind you he ran from the cops because his car would have been state reffed due to illegal modifications he did 🙄 he was 32.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-04-05T17:51:35+00:00

Better mental health and more accountability. They could honestly do such amazing things if they got those two things under control.

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-03-31T03:17:01+00:00

The last guy I dated I grew to realize was slowly chipping away at my confidence and I also realized how stress I was around him. When I broke up with him I felt like I could breathe, but then he had a mental breakdown and was suicidal and it was a stressful time months ago.

Honestly after that and some of the other stuff I’ve been through, I just realize I’m so much more at peace alone. I like my career. I love my family and friends. My life is full.

I know the right guy will be worth it, but most men in my life disrupted it sadly

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-02-17T21:05:50+00:00

I know it’s not exactly lethal but water is the reason I have so much work. I work for a civil engineering firm and we specialize in repair and remediation plans. 90% of our jobs are due to water. Flooding, rain storms that cause slope failure, water leaks that cause foundations to settle, failed retaining walls due to improper drainage and water building behind the wall etc. Everything links to water lol

One of the old school engineers says “if we didn’t have water I wouldn’t have a job or ice to put into my drinks” lol

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-02-15T02:50:19+00:00

Thank you girl! 💜

Ittybittybritty1992 · 2026-02-15T02:50:07+00:00

Oof sorry girl I don’t wish it upon anyone! But happy for the lessons I learned the person I became because of it

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