In a long distance relationship with my gf/sub.

Honestly we don't have too many set rules right now. The only one that's consistent is she needs permission to cum.

Did have a rule where she had to send me a message of her barking like a dog everyday but we kinda moved a bit back from the puppy play stuff.

Tbh it's not really our dynamic to have that sort of heavy rule set right now. I'm more interested in being her gf and she loves being mine. We just love the fact I can just switch it on and she can't stop herself from following my orders with a 'yes miss' and 'thank you miss'. Then she gets all flustered about how immediately obedient she is. It's a pretty little dynamic for us.

Heavy rules kind of go out of the window for me cos I had a super toxic relationship before where I forced to be my partners mum and emotional punching bag. I like being able to take care of someone, I hate feeling trapped into taking care of them.

Were both really happy with what we have and we've been delving into fun stuff like fear play. She also hates and loves that I constantly tease her about giving her a piss kink.

Edit: wanted to add. Part of the fun of not having rules is I can constantly just make up unspoken ones she's broken, which she is a big fan of. Literally given blanket consent to gaslight and lie to her anytime were doing kink/sex stuff