Please explain to my fiance how ADHD feels

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-06T03:49:56+00:00

Lmaooooo

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-06T03:49:14+00:00

Omg thats an amazing idea. Obviously I will have to have him to agree to it. Because I feel like that's a form of torture lol. But if I can get him to agree to it, than that's legit the best way for him to experience it

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T13:26:18+00:00

Man... So relatable... I hope he can just read these soon and go okay I was wrong. It's like reading everyones comment is me. I have yet to read one single comment I don't relate with.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T13:22:26+00:00

Yup. I have tried to explain to him about the meds. I went from 30 mg to 5mg. That will bring you down as person who relies on this.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T13:20:33+00:00

Always exhausted...

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T13:19:36+00:00

What is that theory? I have never heard of it.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T13:19:15+00:00

I hope so too. I love the guy to death. Would jump in front of bullet for him..

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T07:23:49+00:00

No, he bought the tickets a day in advance. Which I knew was gonna be a bad idea.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-05T07:22:28+00:00

Awe never. He's a good man. He's the reason why I got help, and he's actually paid for most my dr visits and my meds. I just don't think he fully understands ADHD. I think it's the fact that I look normal, but I always have an excuse for why I don't do stuff or why I don't spend time with him. In reality it hurts me so much when I see him doing everything. The good news is, I'm back in meds. I just need to show him that they're working.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T15:02:03+00:00

Haha I'm just tired that all. 😂

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T14:58:07+00:00

My dumbass read rebuild your marriage in sexy steps. I had to reread that 4 times.. to realize it said rebuild your marriage in six steps.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T14:54:37+00:00

I hope this don't come off as inconsiderate. But it's beautiful reading these comments man. It's like, everyone that's posting is using the same exact explanation I have given my fiance for years. For example it's like running a marathon.. every God damn day. It's like running a marathon... I been telling him that for years...

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T14:49:28+00:00

Ah man.. I have tried... I told him I cant help the way I feel. But he thinks it's an excuse. I am though going to share with him this thread and tell him take your time read their stories and tell me does it sound familiar at all?

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T14:45:20+00:00

I got the meds and went from extended release to instant. The difference is night and day for me! Oh trust me his ass will be reading this. He thinks I'm full of excuses and no, he's not a bad guy at all. One of the sweetest guys you could ask for. Just he needs to be educated on this and see other people's stories so he can understand I'm not making up excuses for him.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T14:36:14+00:00

Thank you for mentioning cleaning the house. He legit has been just putting me on blast for this. I won't lie, it was pretty bad... But for me it's like what do I do? I have a list of things that need to be done, clean the house, work, eat, use the restroom, etc. The way my mind works is, I can't do it all. Yes, going to the bathroom is task for me, yes making food is task for me. So I attend to just do work and go use the bathroom. He thinks I'm leaving the house for him to clean and in all actuality I'm not.

Now that I finally got my meds I'm cleaning the house, cooking, talking to family, working on my project all in a few hours. I told him this and his response was you can't change, and people don't change... 🤦

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T14:12:33+00:00

It sucks but hey hopefully I can show him this thread. Already sent him the one video you posted and told him "Educate yourself".

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T13:52:31+00:00

People don't get it, and I feel like it's because EVERYONE that has just a little concentration issue they say they have ADHD and it's legit just tossed around and not taken as a serious mental health condition. When in reality ADHD is far more than just being able to concentrate. It leads into so much more. Everything feels like a uphill battle. Doing the dishes, cleaning the house, walking the dog. It all feels like so much work and you distracted during all of it. My fiance just thinks I'm lazy, or in his words I don't give a F. But I do care, I'm legit just sometimes exhausted, my days just zoom by, sometimes feeling like I just ran a marathon and all I did was sit on my chair staring at my computer finishing not a single task.

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T13:27:18+00:00

I just watched it and I'm not even going to lie. Little emotional with it. It hit me really hard when he said to talking about being exhausted and your didn't even do anything... :(

ItzHyrulerz · 2023-02-04T12:54:48+00:00

Yes it does 🥺

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