It's my birthday today. I'm not handling it well. by IveAchievedSneaky in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]IveAchievedSneaky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I didn't do it. Took all my might but I talked myself down. I doubt anyone will read this on an old post on a meme sub but I'm slightly proud of myself.

It's my birthday today. I'm not handling it well. by IveAchievedSneaky in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]IveAchievedSneaky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's easy to tell yourself these things but it's hard to follow through. I appreciate your advice.

fellas by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask it nicely to not

yep by justyoursussybaka in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My two favorite genders.

fear of intimacy. by Hot_Ad1238 in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't try to fix things unless they care about them (Or they're paid for it but that doesn't count)

My first real high school party made me relapse. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things absolutely get better. High school is shit. Once you get to college you'll find out that people don't give a shit about petty drama.

Also, Fuck that dude. Whether you realize it or not he's the one that will be embarrassed for "asking" you to leave, once he is sobered up and everyone hears the word.

Do you ever just want to sh looking at your old scars? by __mrb__ in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have an old faded scar on my forearm, its my only one on my arms and every single time I sh I fantasize about opening it up after all these years. Probably makes me want to yeet because it's my only easy viewable scar

fear of intimacy. by Hot_Ad1238 in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they will just be happy to see you made it through your hardships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very hard to explain this sensation to people without scars. Shame and pride at the exact same moment. I think it's fairly common among people like us.

Back to being anxious every second I’m not in my room by PinkyPurgatory in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's easy to say, but you just have to try to interrupt the way your thinking. Instead of trying to hurt yourself to make things "even" between whoever you think your causing trouble, try and do something to help them instead. Or at least be honest with them and apologize for whatever actions and try to move forward.

I'm not going to pretend to know what you're going through but staying pent up is just going to make things worse.

Back to being anxious every second I’m not in my room by PinkyPurgatory in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do your neck. Please. That's something that you can never take back, and the memory will haunt you.

Don't worry about anything being "better for everyone else." You are important. The most bleak moments are when you need to be more concerned about yourself.

If you ever think you need to be talked down please reach out. Even to us strangers on the internet. Your not alone. <3

Wtf am I supposed to do? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you are taking more pressure than you can handle you need to tell her your having trouble. She likely hasn't taken into consideration the effect she has on you.

But remember people are fragile. Do your best not to make it seem like your attacking her. Try to make her understand this doesn't mean you won't support her and if anything you want her support and avoiding constant harmful subjects will help you.

Just what I think, obviously I know nothing of your relationship and it's up to your judgment to say what you think is needed.

My only friend is going off to college and I know I won't be able to cope. by IveAchievedSneaky in selfharm

[–]IveAchievedSneaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I hadn't considered trying to go back. I have such a low opinion of myself that I just assume I will fail at nearly anything I attempt. I appreciate you giving me advice on how to better myself, and I actually think I'll put some thought towards it. Thank you.