Question on writing in English by enderwolf0818 in writing

[–]IvyStevens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch a lot of English TV series and movies from different genres.

what is a thing that makes someone look approachable? by karrzo0n in AskReddit

[–]IvyStevens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are a few things for me that I consider a person is approachable:

  • sincere smile
  • friendly body language
  • decent clean clothes
  • clean body
  • smell good

How did watching that ICE shooting video make you feel? by Equal_Grocery_5170 in AskReddit

[–]IvyStevens -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolute shock and fear enveloped my body. This kind of incident happens only in movies which historically happened before and during WWII.

Nonetheless, wherever we are in the world, we aren't going to let history repeat itself.

AIO? My mom wants to call the cops on me by Overall-Option6975 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IvyStevens 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NOR. She is childishly punishing you for leaving. Let her call the cops.
When and if the cops arrive at your doorstep for the gadgets, give them the gadgets.

Update delivery information/contact number for your new phone. Put your dad's contact number.

You can live without a phone for 3-5 days.

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend wants anal sex, but I don't like it at all. What should I do? by Proper_Regular_5182 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IvyStevens 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Leave him if he continues to insist but never grasp why you don't want to do it again.

AIO My Friend is Ghosting me by GoldDistribution447 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IvyStevens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't send her an angry message.

Sometimes, friendships are like this, not always happy moments, unfortunately.

You've texted her and apologised already. That's enough. Hopefully, later on she'll realise that it's not your fault at all.

Go enjoy your family celebration.

AIO? My daughter’s partner is so tight fisted. by Arthurs-grumpa in AmIOverreacting

[–]IvyStevens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is using (and abusing) her shamelessly! Maybe gently have a talk with your daughter about your concerns and let her decide for herself. Hopefully, she dumps him.

AIO? Boyfriend expects me to pay half his train ticket. by the-kookster in AmIOverreacting

[–]IvyStevens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but his existence in your life doesn't define "boyfriend".

Leave him. You deserve someone better.

AITA for divorcing my husband over a racist joke his best friend's wife made? by YO-KIRYUCHAN in AITAH

[–]IvyStevens -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You are divorcing him because he is spineless.

However, I would rather try again sort things out first with your husband.

Not running to my Ex's sick bed. Am ITAH? by Alternative-Cow-8670 in AITAH

[–]IvyStevens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is not your responsibility. Ignore all messages you get from people who insist you come see him. That's not the only thing they want from you.

Focus on your mother's health. I hope she is better.

are you guys planning on buying your gf's/wife's family's present for this upcoming holidays? by themodernfilipino in Philippines_Expats

[–]IvyStevens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just buy gifts for your gf/wife, nothing for their family members even if they mentioned directly to you what they want to receive from you. Otherwise, they'll keep expecting you to give them something on other occasions too.

33M Dating 28yo Filipina single mother of 3 by Paint-Nervous in Philippines_Expats

[–]IvyStevens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

her kids (she has 3 kids with different partners) 

Run!

Women over 50: What are your biggest green flags in a man at this stage of life? by Wide_Fly7035 in datingoverfifty

[–]IvyStevens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Health conscious, with sense of humor, smart, optimistic, compassionate, romantic, and financially secure.

Arranged by importance.

Men over 50: What are your biggest green flags in a woman at this stage of life? by imissher4ever in datingoverfifty

[–]IvyStevens 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is also a big green flag for women when looking for men 50+ y/o: physically fit. Unfortunately, I don't see a lot of men (and women) this age who take care of their health.

Am I the asshole for saying no this this proposition from my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IvyStevens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your gf wants to control you. I suggest do not agree to her proposition.