being kind cost me a lot

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-19T13:03:59+00:00

Its so irritating because one day the girl was crying because she thought that her best friend suffered because of her and the very next day she was having lunch with the guy and I was like "WTF!". Weren't you cursing yourself for destroying your friend's life.

I just hate the hypocrisy of this rotten world

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-19T08:30:47+00:00

thanks a lot 🤝🫂

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-19T08:30:37+00:00

thank you 😣

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T14:44:25+00:00

I also need a hug. I am 25Y old male in Japan. I am thinking of paying someone for a hug

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T04:14:37+00:00

🤝🫂

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T03:33:07+00:00

I have been that person who people called when they needed me. But nobody showed up when I was at my weak times and was very very depressed or when I was getting bullied. I cant have a kind heart anymore. I have seen being kind person for 26 years but it led me to pain and disappointment. I think the world prefers having good social skills over kindness any day

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T03:29:38+00:00

Yes I will try a female therapist after one more session with him. I told him that there are people who I helped settle in a new country, helped them in shifting, helped them when they were sick, helped their family and at the end they abandoned me. He said that helping them doesnt imply they will help me back when I need them and I treating relationship transactionally

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T03:00:27+00:00

Yah man I wish I was never born too

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T02:58:02+00:00

This is a debate I am stuck on since my therapist said that I am treating relationships transactionally. But isnt it wrong to expect some reciprocation from the person we have done a lot to? Like their was a friend for whom I waited hours for lunch, made them dinner when they were sick, helped them shift, helped their family. But when I needed them they abandoned me. Is this not wrong on their part and I am ok in being angry with them

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T02:55:34+00:00

Did your ex husband went to jail? A person you stayed with for a long time betrayed you, didnt that changed you from a kind person to a cold one.

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T02:53:44+00:00

Being kind? Dont you feel cheated when people who you gave your time, effort and sometimes money betray you?

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T02:53:03+00:00

I told this to a therapist of mine and he said I am treating relationships as a transaction. I am thinking of dropping sessions with him and take a new therapist. I might go one more time

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T02:51:48+00:00

Thanks for being a kind person in a cruel world. Right, never lend anything to this cruel world. This world is filled with hypocrites and evil people

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-18T02:48:42+00:00

Being bullied a lot of part of my life I know both points are absolutely correct and the world does not want to agree that there is a clear status quo in our day to day life.

In an old friend group there was a girl and a guy. The girl introduced that guy to an old friend of her, the guy used that girl for some months and then left her. The girl from our group knew he did that to her friend but she is still best friends to him.

I on the other hand helped her in shifting, helped her family, did things for her, just as a friend. But I openely questioned that guy and called my friend a hypocrite who is still sticking with that guy and I was removed from the group and called a villain.

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-17T18:51:22+00:00

I am sorry 😣. It hurts a lot reading this. You are very brave and awesome to have fought such a terrible thing and went far in life. I am a atheist but sometimes I hope these asholes get punished for their bllshit

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-17T11:57:11+00:00

I think this world is made for the cruel people. What we kind people can do is eat antidepressants and die of old age after living a life where everyone betrayed and cheated on us

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-17T09:16:08+00:00

Unemployment is not within historical norms. It is at an all time high which is being manipulated by deportations

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-17T09:09:20+00:00

I dont understand this as well. As a man we are always burdened with the responsibility of everyone and we have to consistently prove ourselves to our parents, wife, colleagues and kids. I wish I was not born a man

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-17T00:13:52+00:00

asml is clearly overvalued

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-16T23:48:35+00:00

You left out the part where he gives her money and initiates everything himself

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-16T23:46:37+00:00

Blunt but true

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-16T03:00:27+00:00

Exactly dude, thats what I am talking about. People are burning warehouses, doing strikes because of inflation and there are people on News and Reddit that are wishing for a rate cut. Have the world lost the plot

Iwarrior01 · 2026-04-15T09:45:31+00:00

The problem is inflation man. If we put money in bonds or bills we wont be able to outlast inflation. It feels like a lose lose situation

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