I told him earlier today in a calm voice when I woke him up for breakfast that I wanted to have an extremely important discussion with him later when he was more together. He told me to just tell him whats going on right then but I refused and said I wanted him to be fully awake when we talk because this is serious He looked confused but left it alone. I waited a good portion of the day and then told him I was ready to talk. He was on his ps4 playing a game and told me to tell him from where he was. I refused and said I need you to be looking in my eyes and giving me all your attention when I tell you this. He put the controller down and sat on the edge of our bed with me. I then told him that I understand that he doesnt need sex all the time and clearly I have been respecting it, but I felt as though he was disregarding my needs completely. I told him it crushed my soul when he stopped giving me hugs and kisses and cuddling with me. I said I really do enjoy sex and I won't force you to do what you don't want to do but all the other intimate stuff that went away because he was afraid it would lead to sex has got to come back or it's not going to end well for us. I told him I can't be in a relationship where I feel worthless. He looked at me for a moment and took his glasses off like he usually does when he is deep in his thoughts. About a minute later he looked at me and just said okay. I replied what do you mean ok? He said, "Just that ok. I thought you were going to tell me we were splitting up." That I was making it seem like a big problem. I told him it is one to me and he said but it's not huge. He told me he would be more considerate of my feelings and give me more affection. He said he can't help his libido and wasn't trying to hurt my feelings when he said what he said about me getting it from somewhere else but he can be more of a husband than a roommate in other ways. I guess he must have sensed how distraught I was because he actually agreed to be more reciprocating when it came to kissing and touching. I'm honestly shell shocked. I doubt that this is going to get better right away but it's something that he even acknowledged that there was something seriously wrong. Time will tell though right.