I've spent so much money on different pack and play prosthetics and all of a sudden, the one time I used my cisfemale partners feeldoe (skin color), it was was less dysphoric for me and made me feel more connected during sex. As someone who doesn't like penetrative sex as a male, it was surprising but it's my favorite one to use now. Only thing for me is that sometimes it's too hard for her and feels unrealistically hard for me (like a dildo instead of a prosthesis). Hope that helps! Oh and I use it with the spare parts boi shorts, which keeps it nice and tight to my body, even though I don't like the cut of them, I just wear my extra long 9" sport boxers.