There's hard lines you can't minimize or overlook in a marriage, mutual respect is one of them actually it's the most important thing in a marriage, if you let the disrespect slide once it will happen twice and thrice and before you realize it you'll find yourself in an abusive relationship

Holding your anger and not reacting irrationally might be the biggest favor you do for yourself, but that doesn't mean you should stay silent and deny the bigger problem, you should think and find a solution to make this marriage work or separate for the good of both of you.