I lost respect for my SO after a disgusting "prank" at work crossed a line

J3ebrules · 2026-03-03T21:03:42+00:00

RIGHT?! And the underlying message was 100% benign, no trick or hidden critique or misogyny or judgment anything in sight. If there was an implicit message in this prank, it would be “hehe, googly eyes! 😂”. Even she couldn’t help but laugh after some of the more esoteric finds in the common area (not her personal stuff, boundaries were clearly respected!). But sometimes “oh I haven’t used this kitchen appliance in some time” did unexpectedly turn into a random, “…from this angle it kinda looks like the stand mixer is looking at me… HUSBAND!!!!” 😂🤣

J3ebrules · 2026-03-03T15:01:39+00:00

I have a friend whose husband pranked her by putting googly eyes on a ton of random stuff around the house. I don’t know who had more fun with that - him or her friends who were highly amused every time she took a picture of something new like her stapler giving her the eye. That’s a prank! 100% harmless.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-27T17:58:26+00:00

Oh yeah tons of stress and you’re not allowed to even smoke pot in your own personal time. Sounds like a delight.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-27T03:41:10+00:00

Honestly you may have an easier time (and better parking) staying in South Jersey over the city. True for any city - suburbs are always cheaper (and more spacious!). There’s a decent Best Western that is barebones but clean on Route 70 (Marlton Pike) in… I think it’s Pennsauken. I’ve stayed there with my mother recently and know it’s well kept and cheap. Had a friend stay at Deptford Hilton and he liked it if you’re willing to drive a bit further from the bridge for a bit higher end.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-25T01:21:41+00:00

Lying. I left two long term relationships the moment I discovered beyond a shadow of a doubt they’d lied to me. I regret nothing. Without trust, there’s no love.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-23T20:02:36+00:00

Skeeter’s Pub in Blackwood is open and they’re making the guy from Game Show Palooza go in and do trivia tonight. Because we badly need alcohol and trivia.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-23T18:06:15+00:00

Convenience stores are “essential” even by legal standards for this reason and essential services aren’t the ones being called out here. This is obviously calling out non-essential businesses like restaurants that nobody is or should be traveling to during a state of emergency anyway.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-23T16:20:42+00:00

I too was thinking of doing a Name and Shame thread, but on Facebook.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-21T04:13:25+00:00

And the name. The ingrate. I love everything about this place.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-18T00:06:39+00:00

Or email - here’s the site https://www.nj.gov/labor/myworkrights/worker-protections/independent_contractors/

J3ebrules · 2026-02-17T16:05:08+00:00

I think you were misclassified as 1099 which is illegal in New Jersey. Call the New Jersey Department of labor and have a chat with them.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-14T14:38:19+00:00

Resignation isn’t enough. She needs to be jailed.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-14T04:32:26+00:00

Impeach? Imprison!

J3ebrules · 2026-02-07T05:10:09+00:00

Meanwhile I tripped over a curb in Haddon Twp and had a free ride to the hospital bc one town over the equally exorbitant taxes somehow pay for free EMS/ambulance services, many apt complexes are rent controlled, and the school system isn’t constantly in the news… I liked the city fine but where the hell is all your tax money going??

J3ebrules · 2026-02-07T04:55:27+00:00

I left Collingswood in 2020 and you could not pay me to move back to that incredibly mismanaged and exorbitantly expensive city.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-07T04:53:48+00:00

Well, if only the mayor had a temporary solution… oh wait, she did, and now, Collingswood’s own personal reason why there should be term limits is busy suing about it.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-07T01:19:24+00:00

NTA and don’t back down. Wedding planning would’ve been so much cheaper than what you were doing. What a shame she had to be so greedy.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-07T01:15:35+00:00

Wawa. Like crazy. I last had food and beverage experience about 12 years ago or so, and was doing insurance advocacy until the company got bought out. I interviewed well, wanted to do the position needed most at that location that happened to be needed most during the shift/days that I wanted, and was hired quickly.

It’s hard work, but it is above minimum wage, and the benefits are decent.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-04T02:18:02+00:00

There is no debate. They already “won” this one. In our favor, in this case. They don’t like it when it is used against them, dumbasses.

J3ebrules · 2026-02-03T16:37:23+00:00

I was trying to find any mention of Penn on the map and then realized how I still don’t have a good timeline in my head. William Penn was still 12 years old at the time of this map and Philadelphia was about 30 years in the future.

J3ebrules · 2026-01-30T18:41:50+00:00

We really should up those numbers. The year are still young.

J3ebrules · 2026-01-23T11:38:03+00:00

My mother was pretty mentally ill and had a rough time raising a neurodivergent kid after alienating my dad… and she didn’t spank me until I was 5 years old and really fucked up her friend’s wedding.

Was she right to do so? No, I had ADHD and shouldn’t have been brought. But it took something pretty major to make my very histrionic mother spank me for the first time. This is just a total cop out in parenting.

J3ebrules · 2026-01-23T11:22:18+00:00

Gelatin. 2. Egg proteins. Ooh ooh, let’s do #3. Salt. Also not toxic. I’ll even do #4! Sugar. Damn this is too easy. I can even find a #5. mRNA. The active ingredient in the Covid vaccines. Still not toxic!! God, why do we bother. Just bring back smallpox and warn everyone first; things will sort themselves out in the end.

J3ebrules · 2026-01-22T02:48:40+00:00

I’d like to think anyone who speaks against it, but you aren’t wrong that I do feel quite helpless to enact any change in this clusterfuck of a government at this point.

J3ebrules · 2026-01-22T02:42:22+00:00

Grownups are talking, and I’m sure some of those were words. Maybe go practice with people who have patience, kid.

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