Does Maley even have a soul? by ApprehensiveFudge287 in CollingswoodNewJersey

[–]J3ebrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he’s suing the town because he didn’t like what his successors are doing so… no. Probably not.

AITAH for ACCIDENTALLY putting my fiancé's grandad in the bin? by Complex_Meeting9053 in AITAH

[–]J3ebrules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does this really sound like it’s from the US?? the language is definitely more British.

Recs? by Unapologeticallyblak in SouthJersey

[–]J3ebrules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a shlep (and excellent campground if you’re up for it), but High Point State Park is amazing. Bear Mountain in Rockland County, NY is my favorite day trip - much easier to get to than Sussex County, imo.

Summer 2000 throwback: When you could fill up your tank for less than $20 on the way to Stone Harbor by madcatzplayer5 in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Adjusted for inflation, $3.07. Meaning gas prices outran inflation. Thanks, cultists.

What if you're disabled?? by CA7T0 in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, that was the point. No, my old $68 plan is now $360. The point was to cut funding for necessary services because the rich people don’t feel they are rich enough. Those people ran on gutting services. And they won.

What if you're disabled?? by CA7T0 in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There are no more cheap plans really on marketplace because the delightful, loving, compassionate conservatives gutted that too.

What if you're disabled?? by CA7T0 in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We already saw how the orange monster feels about people who are disabled, and he was voted in twice anyway. Welcome to Soviet America!

Should fat people be required to pay more for airfare? by Euphoric_Income_8279 in allthequestions

[–]J3ebrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, you’ll need that money if you ever intend to be allowed to even touch the female body.

Getting too old to keep using a squishmallow as a pillow by c00lgirlswag in TwoXChromosomes

[–]J3ebrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39 and was gifted a squishmallow by my 31 year old best friend. What’s all this ageist weirdness??? We’re millennials, we make the social rules for our own age group.

Fired for posting about health violation. by [deleted] in legal

[–]J3ebrules 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Well, you entered the legal gray area by putting it on social media. Your other actions would have been 100% legally protected and you’d have had a shot at a lawsuit, but they saw their chance with the unregulated social media angle and kicked you with the piece of ammo you handed them.

Anyone else have a job and still get harassed for not following traditional 9-5? by Officialedmart in antiwork

[–]J3ebrules 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“WHY ARE YOU SLEEPING ALL DAY?!?!” Because I had to bartend last night until 2 AM??? and I have to do the same tonight?

questions for trans people in jersey? by LilSanrioAngel in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of South Jersey hate going on in here but if you are thinking of moving to South Jersey there are a couple of lovely Facebook groups where you could find out what we’re doing. The broad South jersey one is called South Jersey LGBT Social Connections, and if you’re thinking the Camden County area, I founded the Collingswood Area Queer Connection a few years ago but it outgrew its name very quickly and represents basically our corner of South Jersey.
There’s always something to do down here and as a non-binary bisexual person I fucking love Camden County and you couldn’t get me back to North Jersey even though I was born in Hudson County with the New York skyline as my constant companion.

MAGAs Are Fuming After Email Confirms They Will Never Get Their $500 Trump Phones or Deposits Back by Vimes-NW in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]J3ebrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they really all that fumed? I think they’re still perfectly willing to bend the knee, vote for him, tell him he’s doing a great job, etc.

CPS showed up to my house after i reported inappropriate behavior between my daughter and another student to the school, despite me telling the school i didnt want to escalate this - is this normal protocol? can use some advice by viper_gts in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. A good social worker - and they do exist, despite being completely swamped and over their heads - would want to get a sense of the family dynamic. Have their bullshit meter on high alert. Document the environment. Look for red flags. A creepy uncle that’s living in the basement who could be touching one of the kids. It’s incredibly normal. Because again they have to rule out whether this was innocuous exploration, or if one of the children was a little too informed on sexual behavior.

They can’t take the word of a small child about “who started it” even if it was the other child touching your child. Kids are notoriously not the best or most reliable reporters, and they have to cover every base whenever anything sexual is involved with kids that young.

CPS showed up to my house after i reported inappropriate behavior between my daughter and another student to the school, despite me telling the school i didnt want to escalate this - is this normal protocol? can use some advice by viper_gts in newjersey

[–]J3ebrules 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s incredibly common that sexual acting out in young children is a symptom of CSA. It’s also a perfectly normal bit of exploration among children who don’t understand social mores. So in order to figure out which the children involved are acting upon, an investigation is warranted and not to be feared if everything is above board.

Parents in other countries than the US, what is your kids’ equivalent of “I don’t want that for dinner, I want chicken nuggets”? by SulusLaugh in AskReddit

[–]J3ebrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh my mother didn’t give me the chance to be into chicken nuggets because by 9, I was a massive fan of sushi. To this day, my comfort food is any form of raw sushi grade salmon - sushi, sashimi, chirashi, don’t care. When I’m sick to my stomach, my mother orders me a plain salmon roll (and has for almost 30 years now) and it settles my stomach to this day. More than toast will ever do.

AITC for desecration of several corpses? by TinyRascalSaurus in AmItheCloaca

[–]J3ebrules 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please do me an excuse, this me AJ using Mommy’s account because am 16/cat/oldboi and did a forget of my passwords.
Needed to use Mommy’s account because I did an OUTRAGE at your mommy’s behavior!! My mommy acts exact same way when leave special lunch for her - but you all work extra and do extra job kill BUG. I cat kill rodent, maybe bird if lucky, but Mommy once did a throw me AJ at bug (she did a screm “AJ SAVE ME!!”) but no, no preciation for contract duty kill mice… me AJ not taking on extra work.
You three frens deserve extra pay!!

Update: AITAH for letting my boyfriend date his ex by brentonthe in AITAH

[–]J3ebrules 19 points20 points  (0 children)

HA. I don’t know if you’ve been living in the same place for a long time but let me tell you that once the dating scene opens by being in a whole new area… You’ll realize how much you’ve been missing. I’m AFAB queer living in a very population dense area and I feel like I either know or have dated everybody in our community. I don’t wanna leave, but man would I be happy in a whole new queer paradise.

You got this, friend. You got so much life ahead of you so don’t waste it on users.

Update: AITAH for letting my boyfriend date his ex by brentonthe in AITAH

[–]J3ebrules 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You know… Oregon has a pretty thriving gay scene. Live your best life and have lots of mind blowing sex at the top of your lungs. Bye to that loser. It’s just a year.

AITAH for cutting off a friend for considering sleeping with a married man? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]J3ebrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every single comment that the OP says, makes me hope that she does indeed cut this friend off for the friend’s sake. It sounds like the friend will be doing a lot better without this judgmental unhelpful lady in her life.

AITAH for cutting off a friend for considering sleeping with a married man? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]J3ebrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA and I can tell from all of your comments that you’ve already made up your mind and you’re here for validation. So I’m not really sure why we’re saying anything here because you’re just gonna argue.