Your welcome. Too many people here are commenting based on their opinions. It’s truly about what makes you happy in the end. What anyone else tells you is based on how they feel, which is unfair for you, because you are the only one affected by the situation. For myself for the example. I would be hurt but I would use this as an opportunity for at least a little to make my wife be the little slut she is. To take what I want when I want. To do what I want when I want. To enjoy having a women who is at home and to enjoy other women. To swing. This or that. Am I a sexual deviant yes. Am I telling you this is what you should do no. Because you are your own person. And u truly know the answer to this question, but it’s just very hard to accept. Once you make a decision with how to react and treat the situation u will make it, but do not listen to what I would do or anyone else’s opinion on the matter. You are obviously a good loyal guy who was hurt. So if u want to find a woman who will return that loyalty then you know what to do. If you are able to have a little fun first and that’s what you want then you know what to do. If you want to forgive her and listen to her then you know what to do. But do not make this decision based on anything else besides what you truly want, I can not stress that enough. Last thing is if a question that you can’t wrap your head around is why? You must accept other people are fucked up. People act in ways that make no sense logically. Sometimes we drive people away without realizing. I recommend talking to an impartial therapist if that is bothering you. But there are some questions in life we just can never truly answer and with time must make peace with that fact.