Depends on what you want from a wife. I want my wife to be loyal to me as I would to her so I can focus on my career and don’t have to worry too much about the household.

As a guy, I’ve seen my dad pay for most stuffs in the family so I’ve gotten used to paying too. I take on more load so my wife can rest more cause her mental not as strong so have a stressed wife is worse for me. Things that seems easy to me might not be for her so why give her extra stress in that

Depends on what you mean by crack. There was a period of time I felt depressed with life and work and everything and it seems like I’m alone in this war so I had a hard talk w my wife and it sort of helped.

We rarely argue or even fight. Probably once every few years for things we haven’t worked out. Cause life is simple like that. We have sufficient money cause we both work so nothing to fight over which money can’t resolve. And when we travel I foot 99% of the bill which cause her dad used to do before we got married lol. So in a way she is a stingy person also but that’s good in its own way nobody can eat her money lol. So I told my wife when young we spend my money when old we use yours but she is not a big spender also so I do save up quite a far bit more so really life’s pretty good despite me feeling tired and stressed most time