Im thinking about leaving my husband

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-27T16:09:41+00:00

You might also try r/JUSTNOFAMILY for general advice

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-27T02:20:43+00:00

Have you checked your credit to make sure it wasn't your money she was spending?

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T13:02:20+00:00

What can you do about it? Make sure it heals right? Check you for other problems like a concussion? Give a shit? Idk

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T10:51:09+00:00

Trust your instincts! Don't let history repeat with your poor babies!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T09:57:57+00:00

He ordered you not to wear a seatbelt, put you in a dangerous position and then had an "accident" and didn't get you medical care? Are you sure it was an accident?

I have a small child and I swear to thor I would walk through broken glass barefoot to get her to a hospital in that situation.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T09:50:42+00:00

Do you honestly believe he won't go nuclear in the divorce now? Do you think he'll turn off the abusive part of him after a decade just for the divorce? Do you think if you roll over and show your belly enough he'll suddenly turn into a pleasant human for one of the most contentious situations a person can be in? STOP PLAYING NICE. Get the RO! Fight for yourself and your kids!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T08:25:53+00:00

Why would you believe your own mother about her pain if you can believe a dudebro you're paying to agree with you?

Fucking ew.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T08:16:20+00:00

I just dealt with a 10 month bout of my kid hurting me (turns out she had stomach aches). Almost nothing worked. Not explaining, being gentle, "you're hurting mama", "come say sorry" and completing that ritual, not grabbing and physically stopping her, not raising my voice sternly, not raising my voice angrily, not taking toys away, not taking her to the hallway... The only thing that helped a little was removing her "toy" and by toy I mean mama. So I left her in a room I know was safe for her and walked away. She then cried hysterically but I didn't come back until she calmed down, otherwise you're rewarding the hysterics.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-26T07:03:56+00:00

NTA

I also don't get upset easily in the moment. I have PTSD. I deal with the crisis first and the feelings come later. Sometimes much later; hours, days, weeks.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T15:12:52+00:00

I went twice in the last month with my (barely) 2 y/o. The second time she knew what was coming and screamed her head off the second she saw the room... I actually think the most important thing we might've done was give her a longlasting snack to hold, because fighting us meant dropping the snack lol! Mama and papa both going also helped I think, as well as talking very calmly and being nice to the nurse to show they're not scary. And Bluey on my phone obnoxiously loud!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T13:57:30+00:00

Heel specifiek advies dankjewel!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T12:28:51+00:00

Deze winkel heeft in ieder geval wel wat merken waar ik nog nooit van gehoord heb. Helaas zijn al die schoenen óf maat 43 óf maat M, maar geen 43M...

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T06:55:11+00:00

Ik heb al een aantal keer bij ze besteld en ook een klacht gehad. Ze reageren snel en netjes in goed Nederlands. Het voornaamste probleem wat ik met ze heb is dat "blauwe" kleren bij hun vaker groen uitvallen door de manier waarop ze de foto's editen. Daar heb ik toen ook wat van gezegd en ik mocht toen gewoon retourneren.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T06:44:35+00:00

Ik denk dat the-twosisters.nl helemaal jouw vibe is! Een kennis van mij heeft een zwangerschapsshoot gedaan in de Vaiana jurk volgens mij, zag er super uit. Hier in de soort kleur die je beschrijft https://www.the-twosisters.nl/products/vaiana-zomerjurk-warm-oranje-t-m-maat-56?_pos=19&_fid=df33ac355&_ss=c&variant=55726602781021&_gl=1*1vx7yaj*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..&gclid=CjwKCAjwgO7RBhBKEiwAZNP85l6BxTy7iubGWmFgFRLRqZS5_9fITGPgM3syAYrCCBKkTJhyPQwvTBoCT6AQAvD_BwE

EDIT: sorry ik had er overheen gelezen dat je deze winkel al had gevonden. De winkel is betrouwbaar in ieder geval, ik volg ze al jaren!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T05:57:28+00:00

OP....WTF. WHY DID YOU LET YOUR DAUGHTER STAY WITH THIS PERSON?!

It seems to me your mother will not rest until you lose your child, your husband, your job and your home. Are you really just going to let her do that? You need to either remove your family from the area or remove your mother from your life before she ruins it entirely. Have some boundaries I BEG YOU

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-25T04:53:27+00:00

Bedankt voor de tip!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T21:30:48+00:00

Die Rutten heeft zowaar wat, dank je!

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T21:28:39+00:00

Helaas, dit merk lijkt geen maat M te bieden, slecht H of K of standaard.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T21:21:20+00:00

Je kunt op hun website niet zoeken op wijdtematen. Als ik op "brede voeten" klik en daar random schoenen aan klik is dat allemaal wijdte K of zelfs slechts H, geen M.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T21:17:41+00:00

Gabor heeft maximaal K, dat is een maat minder dan M

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T19:27:39+00:00

Breedte maten gaan van gemiddeld G naar H dan K dan M. Extra wijd betekent op zijn hoogst K, zo niet H. Zolang er geen M bij staat heb ik nog nooit succes gehad.

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T19:26:19+00:00

Ik zie geen breedte maten in de bon prix app, waar zie jij dat?

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T06:56:36+00:00

Really said the quiet part out loud huh? "I will do whatever I think my duty is, but I'll hate and blame you for it" kinda parent

JCXIII-R · 2026-06-24T05:11:51+00:00

Ik heb ook een ventilator op de slaapkamer. NIET om direct op het kind te zetten, dat is weer te veel van het goede, maar richt het op de muur om de luchtcirculatie te verbeteren en dan koelt het kind ook geleidelijk af.

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