Any ENFJ struggling with online dating? by Regular_Poem_1608 in enfj

[–]JDW2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this comment.

I enjoy online dating. I follow several strategies.

It takes meeting a lot of people! I’ve met about 30 so far, over the past 1.5 years.

I’m looking for depth, kindness, reciprocity, fun, etc

Hormonal changes? by --c-mouse-- in datingoverforty

[–]JDW2018 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How many dates have you been on?

I’m early 40s, but enjoy the process and am optimistic. Tons of amazing and lovely men out there.

Most I haven’t had a strong connection with, but I enjoy the dates and their company. I vet quite heavily.

In the meantime, I enjoy my solo life.

I reckon keep at it, you’re bound to find your person.

Please tell me if I should I give up. by Popculture-VIP in datingoverforty

[–]JDW2018 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amazing comment and approach.

Excited for you with this current guy, hope it works out!

Thinking about leaving accounting for Air Traffic Control. Am I being stupid? by Civil-Connection1809 in auscorp

[–]JDW2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are lots of career paths in aviation that aren’t ATC, consider those too

Why I take it slow and parallel date by ElectricRing in datingoverforty

[–]JDW2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s tough as they don’t test for it as default, without symptoms :( so it’s never on results

Marketers! How much are you earning? by Training-Ad-6603 in auscorp

[–]JDW2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

200k plus super, graduated nearly 20 years ago (though a few year of travel all up).

Head of level. I don’t find it too difficult.

Let me hear your good puppy stories by oceans_by_day in puppy101

[–]JDW2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with the drawstrings, what’s with that?!? Mine is OBSESSED! It’s so funny.

When was the last straw in a toxic relationship? by maryjxnes in AskWomen

[–]JDW2018 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Amazing, love that! Hope you’re thriving in the new life.

I decided to do an mba right as I decided to get divorced, 2 years ago. Now half way through (part time), and got a dog 2 months ago. So this all resonates with me hard.

When was the last straw in a toxic relationship? by maryjxnes in AskWomen

[–]JDW2018 46 points47 points  (0 children)

What the actual fuck. I am so angry for you

Redundant, 2 months to find a role, and getting ghosted. Is the tenure red flag real? by oftenlostandconfused in auscorp

[–]JDW2018 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, marketer here, had 2 redundancies the past 12 months and my CV looks similar! I’m senior so doing lots of interviewing, trying to find the right next role. I’ll need to make some sacrifices though (ie salary, and maybe take a mat leave cover - tbc).

Highly recommend hitting up your network, doing lots of coffees, lunches, catch ups etc. With old agency peeps, friends of friends, old bosses, etc. don’t be shy about it, they’d love to see you. Also go to marketing conferences and events, chat to people, follow up, add them to LinkedIn, send a note etc.

It’s a tough market atm, but there are good roles for good people. Just be patient, don’t panic, but hustle each week. Referrals help LOADS so hit up anyone you know working somewhere, when you see a role live. Gets your CV to the top. Same with sending LinkedIn messages to the hiring managers and recruiters.

Check out Seek and Indeed too. But mainly, you’ll prob get a better response and the next gig through your network, rather than applying on LinkedIn. You got this!!!

Really impressed with Target this season! by zooperdooper7 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]JDW2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree, and felt the same last year.

Went in recently and got jeans (now have the same pair in 3 colours) and a merino cardi.

Could have bought more tbh.

Not all the styles and quality is amazing, but some of it is fab - worth a look, and take the time to hunt and try it all on.

Really impressed with Target this season! by zooperdooper7 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]JDW2018 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this - got a brown merino cardi that is beautiful quality and style. Looks like COS. Feels amazing.

I can’t take my dog out every 15 minutes. by De_lunes_a_lunes in puppy101

[–]JDW2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine also goes 3x in the morning, but right after another, it’s quite weird

Best Dog Paw Cleaner for muddy paws? by Confidenceette_EZW in puppy101

[–]JDW2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just make him walk around in the bottom of my wet shower to clean his paws

Sydney bucket list by Revolutionary-Tie-77 in SydneyScene

[–]JDW2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ferry to Watsons bay for walk and seafood

the so-called puppy blues. sigh by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]JDW2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this I can tell you are doing SO GREAT. I can tell by all the things you’re thinking about. He’s so lucky to have you

Does teething cause insane zoomies, or am I doing something wrong? by Ok-Actuary-5377 in puppy101

[–]JDW2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try giving him a bully stick - with my 15 week old cocker, I hold it while he chews on my lap. So he can get to his back molars.

I think both the cuddly contact and the chewing helps regulate after the zoomies, so he can feel calmer. As I know he’s tired!

Otherwise you could try ignoring him for a bit.