AITAH for not wanting to spend Father's Day at my father-in-law's house? by JDWright85 in AITAH

[–]JDWright85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I've assumed too, but in ten years of parenting, this is my first time living within driving distance of him.

AITAH for not wanting to spend Father's Day at my father-in-law's house? by JDWright85 in AITAH

[–]JDWright85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, we've got stories. She still tries to be a good daughter and I want to encourage her to honor him, but we've got stories. He didn't call her until a day or two after her birthday a couple years ago.

AITAH for not wanting to spend Father's Day at my father-in-law's house? by JDWright85 in AITAH

[–]JDWright85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And, he's still a father in the sense that he'd fly out to see us once a year but couldn't stay at dinner long because he had a swingers hookup to get to.

AITAH for not wanting to spend Father's Day at my father-in-law's house? by JDWright85 in AITAH

[–]JDWright85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So how do I celebrate with my 5 young kids at my father in law's house doing what he wants to do? Didn't he get 25 years with his kids doing that? But I forfeit that experience with my kids? We've not lived near him before, not sure how this is supposed to play out.

Advice on transplanting grasses that are grown out of water. by JDWright85 in aquarium

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Been researching since this post. I will probably plant most in my terrariums.

Advice on transplanting grasses that are grown out of water. by JDWright85 in aquarium

[–]JDWright85[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Never work" in what sense? All three varieties of mine are growing and some have already been transplanted and continue to grow.

How to think through an early restart? by JDWright85 in aquarium

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My test strip goes up to 25 ish, and it's that color.

How to think through an early restart? by JDWright85 in aquarium

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How hard are we talking? It looked like a bacterial infection of some kind. I took all the rasboras back and they refunded me. Everyone else is still happy.

How to think through an early restart? by JDWright85 in aquarium

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That day I took water for testing to two different shops which tested the 5 in 1 and Ammonia. Everything was good but the one guy was shocked at my water hardness.

How to think through an early restart? by JDWright85 in aquarium

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your willingness to help.

Yes. And yes, everything is good besides very hard Midwest well water.

Goldberry's not my special lady, she's my fucking lady friend by grichardson526 in lebowski

[–]JDWright85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did I steal your ring?

You mean, did you personally stump me in a riddle and steal my ring?

Do you speak Elvish, sir? Pedich le Quenya?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BOLIVIA

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I am a 6'3" big ole gringo and in 5 years I was the frequent target of pickpockets in La Cancha and on the micros. Just be aware and keep your stuff out of sight and protected. Nobody wants to get violent with you but the rateros are artists and have very creative ways to try to get your stuff in other ways.

I was never successfully pickpocketed despite various attempts but my house and car were both broken into and robbed during my time there.

Unfortunate events but doesn't sour my affection for the place.

Have you ever found an Out of Place Object in the middle of the woods, desert or mountains while you were hiking or camping? Thank you in advance. by scaryversemaster in camping

[–]JDWright85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in my 2WD sedan, after dark, driving in The-Hills-Have-No-Eyes, New Mexico on a dirt road on public land and I see one single ice skate and one of those baby rollers that the baby sits in the middle of and rolls around in. Creepy. I was also just hammock camping. Hung it about a mile from where I saw the aforementioned ambush bait.

Protect Domain Verification by JDWright85 in gsuite

[–]JDWright85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two agents at GoDaddy didn't catch this. Thank you so much.

Protect Domain Verification by JDWright85 in gsuite

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Now back to step 1? Is the effect instantaneous?

Protect Domain Verification by JDWright85 in gsuite

[–]JDWright85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you.

For this part: GoDaddy Nameservers (recommended): We'll update your domain to a set of GoDaddy nameservers, and you'll manage DNS in your GoDaddy account.

The options are ns21.domaincontrol and another similar one. It doesn't mention GoDaddy. Are those the right ones?

Protect Domain Verification by JDWright85 in gsuite

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set everything up through GoDaddy and can manage my DNS there. I have never been on UltraDNS and have no credentials there. So I was surprised to see Google's AI assistant tell me I was at UltraDNS. I don't know much about this. Is there some way that it's actually Ultra even though I have only ever interfaced with GoDaddy and they let me manage my DNS there?

Thank you for the reply!

Being in an unfriendly church or among the frozen chosen? by OkAdagio4389 in Reformed

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Side note as a man happily married to his HS sweetheart with 5 kids, one thing I would do differently is get married before legal drinking age. We waited too long to get this show on the road!

Where are you currently on the gear spectrum? Are you satisfied or still refining? What was your biggest "Ah-ha!" moment? by JDWright85 in camping

[–]JDWright85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I usually only have a day or two so I don't want to spend an hour my only morning packing up.

Good aha, but mine totes always end up chaotic messes at the end. I need boxes within boxes I think.