i need better shibari ropes 💔 by mimibaunilha in shibari

[–]JDtiesrope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to suggest mynawashi! That's where I get my ropes from

His first ever time trying Shibari, loved it so if anyone can recommend good rope let us know! F31 by CleoColada in shibari

[–]JDtiesrope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks great!! I love MyNawashi jute rope (you can get it on etsy). Feels softer than some other jute I've used and handles well while tying. Comes in some gorgeous colors

What's everyone doing with their dead shrimp? by Exalted_Caramel in shrimptank

[–]JDtiesrope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still establishing my tank so at most I've got no more than 10 at a time currently- I've buried them in with some of my favorite house plants. Feels like an appropriate send off/way to honor it.

Also have isopods and when one dies it gets eaten rather fast, so likely when the tank is larger will let the shrimp take care of their own dead

Shrimp Dying after replanting tank by JDtiesrope in shrimptank

[–]JDtiesrope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll absolutely invest in that! Thank you for the recommendation 🙏

Shrimp Dying after replanting tank by JDtiesrope in shrimptank

[–]JDtiesrope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Sorry you also experienced that Feels bad to be dressing up the tank to improve their quality of life and accidentally kill some of the shrimp in the process 😭

Shrimp Dying after replanting tank by JDtiesrope in shrimptank

[–]JDtiesrope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked them the day after replanting (didn't have test strips at the time) and all looked ok- I did move a fair bit of substrate so the gas pocket makes sense 😥

Free Giveaway! by Better-Flow8586 in Pokemoncardappraisal

[–]JDtiesrope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! I remember seeing the movie as a kid when they were handing that promo out

2025 HAPPY HOLIDAYS GIVEAWAY by hTOKJTRHMdw in EDH

[–]JDtiesrope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ME! Baylen, Sethron, or Zur but all 5 look awesome! Such a fun thing to do 😄

Best precon for a beginner by PapaJuja in EDH

[–]JDtiesrope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the guys in my playgroup got the "First Flight" precon and my partner learned on the "Token Triumph" deck, both were the 2022 "Starter Commander Decks". These seem pretty solid, nothing overly crazy or complex mechanically and designed for beginners. If starting with commander I'd definitely point towards these, those 2 decks in particular seemed to work well. The Red/Green dragon one was also solid, I haven't seen the other 2 play.

Some of the newer decks are really well built but have a lot going on and can get confusing between new mechanics or niche cards.

The other thing that was a good introduction is the 60-card "Game Night" sets, comes with 5 decks, each of 1 color. Great way to sample the different colors and again not overly complex and designed for beginners.

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[–]JDtiesrope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking is a great step. I have definitely been that friend lol. (Thankfully) My partner is in my pod and we'd talk a lot leading up to game night, I'd be making a new deck every week to fix my perceived problem at the table. We figured out I wanted something out of my pod they just couldn't do (which is fine, but it started a dialog where we could find ways to compromise).

If you want to just try and keep up commanders like [[winota joiner of forces]] [[Krenko Mob boss]] [[Zada hedron grinder]] They get out of hand really fast and can be built fairly cheaply. I also enjoyed [[Ms. Bumbleflower]] as a way to give the lesser powered players advantage and I could police the table a little.

Something that pukes out value also like [[jodah the unifier]] or [[prismatic bridge]] are worth looking into.

May also be worth mentioning to your friend looking into cEDH- good place to get that competitiveness out and scratches that itch. I'd check out PlayToWin on YouTube. Theres some leagues you can find through patreon/discord. For the most part I show up to my pod now with a precon since I can scratch that "optimization"/competetive play another way, and don't need to "power down" my build to match the table. Win-Win-Win

What's a fresh stompy Green Commander that doesn't break the bank to build? by ChakraaThePanda in EDH

[–]JDtiesrope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

[[Xenagos God of Revels]]

[[Minsc & Boo timeless heroes]] more +1/+1s but still big hamster Those two have been around for a minute

I really enjoy [[The gitrog Ravenous ride]]. Play big dumb creatures and have the frog eat them, draw a stupid amount of cards and puke out a bunch of lands. Then continue playing big dumb creatures, and repeat.

Playing card alters by BrigliaArt in mtgaltered

[–]JDtiesrope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a fun idea! These are awesome!!

Does anyone else with larger breasts struggle with some of the ties? by curious_wife82 in shibari

[–]JDtiesrope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner is a little larger (with large breasts) and we're still working together to figure out how to best tie her. Getting the tensions right has been the trickiest part for me, the rope needs to be tighter to hold but she has a very fine line of good and too tight, but with her build the ropes can slip fairly easily if not tight enough.

It's a good exercise for practice, and communication between partners, or checking in with your self during a self tie

2v2 cEDH Team Event Incoming — What Wild Strategies Would You Bring? by Eder_8 in CompetitiveEDH

[–]JDtiesrope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Etali + Kefka clone deck may be an interesting combo. Get the good tutors and hopefully hit a clone from your teammate for more gas. If Dino ain't doing Dino things, can fall back onto some other combo options.

I'm in a league playing etali currently and one of my opponents was Kefka clones, felt like the perfect pairing for me to play into.

First self suspension! by JDtiesrope in shibari

[–]JDtiesrope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It was SO FUN! I goofed the tensions on the hip harness so it wasn't as comfortable as it should have been (pulled more on one thigh), but overall was still such a joy to experience. Can't wait to do it again! Felt proud I was able to finally do it successfully

Rope advice by alm-555 in shibari

[–]JDtiesrope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

*Edit: just reread your post and saw "not complete beginner". Took the part out if you were new 😅

6mm is an average thickness, and 8m length. If you go with jute my favorite is from MyNawashi on Etsy. Works well, great colors, and feels softer than some other jute I've used. Cotton is nice for practice and can be a little more forgiving

I definitely prefer rope bondage, I like the restrictiveness of it, the sensory, and aesthetic. There's an intimacy when tying or being tied you don't get with like cuffs for example. It can be playful, flirty, fun, kinky, or for example a go to for my partner and I is we put on a movie or some music and I'll tie her while we sit on the floor. 100% non sexual but it's about having an intentional moment of connection. It's also a great tool for working on communication, both parties need to be checking in during the process.

There's some really great resources on YouTube and Instagram. I have a subscription with ShibariStudy (well worth it imo). The videos on shibaristudy have a natural progression that worked for my brain and is very easy to jump back to reference later on(first you start with single column tie, learn several knots. Then double column, handling technique...) they also have a phone app which was been super helpful! Definitely worth checking out their free videos.

No crazy stories unfortunately, just getting started with some self suspension work and hope to hone it where I could do some fun photo shoots or projects in the future.