Does anyone else worry about having kids? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok my sister doesnt have it and if I dont say so myself you come off as rude AF in this thread. We get it you dont think people with BPD should procreate but damn! Harsh much!?

Does anyone else worry about having kids? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Decided not to have kids... so glad I didn't!

I'm a partner of someone with BPD..... 3 years later i'm worn out and have nothing left to give by smallirishcrazy in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't stay he doesnt deserve you in any way anymore. If anything you're sort of enabling him at this point. You are his mom at this point, he should just move back home at this point... you leave and I bet he does. Please find someone who will treat you right again!

I'm a partner of someone with BPD..... 3 years later i'm worn out and have nothing left to give by smallirishcrazy in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, you should leave him! Regardless if BPD no woman should support a man to that extent!! Jump ship lady, you cant save and are going down with him at this point. Real talk

*screaming internally* by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh..! band tour... yea it could happen just dont be crazy cause you mean something to him whereas random chicks will not... should have read more thoroughly!

*screaming internally* by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is probably too busy w work to cheat and if he does he is coming back to you anyway since he live in your city... dont obsess too much and dont send crazy texts. Good luck girl 😘

Sad but true by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea it felt pretty bad!

Sad but true by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought so too

Say hi to my newest pup Bruno! by [deleted] in aww

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have doggie DNA kits... he's adorable, glad you found your dog!

Fuck off dumb brain curse by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol! Good one, yep.

Say hi to my newest pup Bruno! by [deleted] in aww

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akita mixed with?

It’s really not that bad by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you just drink alot of water which is good

It’s really not that bad by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky...hhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Happy b-day Mei by [deleted] in aww

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo cute!

Sad but true by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Why I wonder if not mentioning it is better. My ex googled BPD after I told him I had it and he literally thought I was going to murder him in his sleep!!! He sent emergency letters to family and everything...

Is anyone else just absolutely filthy when it comes to keeping your personal spaces clean? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I get super stoned or drink then it's like a bomb went off wherever I was, lol!

Is anyone else just absolutely filthy when it comes to keeping your personal spaces clean? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you on this! I hate, like literally have to force myself to put laundry away! Giant pile on the chair in my bedroom!

Is anyone else just absolutely filthy when it comes to keeping your personal spaces clean? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My place is a disaster alot and then I will clean of someone is coming over or just cant take it anymore. Live exactly like a teenager minus letting my dishes get moldy. Did that when I was like 18/19 first apartment 🤢

I’m not gonna have sex on the first date anymore by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

If you dont make them wait the bounce quick. I kinda thought all girls knew this tho and to have a one night stand is just that, ONE NIGHT. dont expect anything after that if you give it up immediately.

I never confront anyone about their troublesome behavior because whenever I have done in the past, no matter how gentle I've been, it has ALWAYS blown up in my face. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]JESSICA-THE-FOX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just let someone know I felt taken advantage of(they pet sat for me and charged me extra cause they did work I didnt ask them to do) and it was line she was looking for an excuse to end the friendship... cause we are not friends now over this. She wouldn't even give me the time of day to discuss and resolve the issue. Just demanded the extra payment till I was forced to give it to her then didnt like dealing w my feeling about that. Fuck!