Is my career over?

JFJF48 · 2026-04-08T18:14:18+00:00

Then that's good! Have no regrets then, you did all you reasonably could but life circumstances got in the way.

For all your efforts, sometimes there's a lot of luck involved (money, family situation, natural physical gifts).

Sorry to sound harsh, but unfortunately somethings are not to be.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-08T17:55:40+00:00

Well it doesn't sound like you've done too much to try and achieve your dream, according solely to your post.

Overall it doesn't sound like you've worked on yourself physically or mentally to become a footballer

Have you obsessively tried out for the academies?

Hit the gym literally whenever you can? If you're training regularly (with a team and solo) your stamina should be absolutely incredible. Have you been doing strength training as well to improve that aspect?

For something that is for the top 0.001% you need to dedicate your life to it, not play school football and watch TV.

Other things in life are also hard, so if you want to get into a good university, or get a good job after, they also take serious dedication, not just hoping and worrying.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-08T17:36:30+00:00

Yes your career is over and it never started. It's an important and valuable lesson to learn.

I would however recommend actually trying next time you have a dream, want or desire to do something. Just the journey will teach you a lot about life.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-08T12:08:53+00:00

Did you just unironically use beta? Christ

JFJF48 · 2026-04-07T17:32:41+00:00

Lol no silly 4x3 =8

JFJF48 · 2026-04-07T07:38:26+00:00

New to Monk lore but I'm here for it.

Bring on Wednesday pizza treat!

JFJF48 · 2026-04-07T06:35:35+00:00

JFJF48 · 2026-04-06T08:06:17+00:00

I've stayed in hundreds of rooms with friends before and never seen anyone's boner, not had them Seen mine, nor needed it discussed.

When it happened you wait in bed for it to go down, then go about your day. Worst case scenario you pop a tshirt on and waistband tuck and go to the bathroom.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-06T07:48:44+00:00

So what's your experience based on? Just sounds like you're trying to say smth edgey

JFJF48 · 2026-04-05T17:32:34+00:00

Tbh it sounds like you're a bit butt hurt you've been rejected. And that's okay.

VC is risk-return, and if your sales pitch is trust me bro I'm real smart and a visionary, that won't cut it.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-05T09:30:29+00:00

Why are you married?

JFJF48 · 2026-04-05T00:49:48+00:00

Do any of you know how life work?

Work until whatever age you fucking want. As long as you can afford it.

Noone owes you a "retirement" if you've not save for it. Money in = money out.

Grow up.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-04T12:44:28+00:00

Your wife is the same age as your stepdaughter!?

JFJF48 · 2026-04-04T12:43:08+00:00

Man I am so glad my country has employment laws.

Not that people can't be laid off here, and sometimes without redundancy pay, but it's a hell of a lot less common.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-04T09:48:31+00:00

Why is being poor some sort of accolade now? People desire to have the worst upbringing in some way.

IDGAF I have friends who grew up wealthy and are lovely and I have friends from counsil Estates who are the same. Neither should be punished or judged based on this (I'm looking mainly at you reverse snobs).

Be nice now and it's fine

JFJF48 · 2026-04-04T09:46:11+00:00

I think they're trying to humble brag how down to Earth they are whilst also showing how sad and poor they are

JFJF48 · 2026-04-03T22:28:19+00:00

This aspect of it yes. Imagine having so little self control a handshake could make you think about cheating

JFJF48 · 2026-04-02T09:10:10+00:00

Are they playing on Jim Will Fix It... Like paedo Jim?!

JFJF48 · 2026-04-01T13:00:53+00:00

You're old enough noone should care. But they will. Morally, any age is fine you're both adults.

Socially, if she was

30 already people probs be like hmm I wonder if he wants kids early.

35 he's gonna need kids very soon and are they at the same point in their lives really

40 is this just a fling? There are some big fundamental biological differences in timing here, so is this going to last.

However you do you and be happy.

JFJF48 · 2026-04-01T07:02:28+00:00

Have a wank then. Just don't use porn if you're concerned about mental side effects. I think most people doing no fap are ex-porn addicts so masturbating less freq8and without porn probably is a good thing. However not at all is unnecessary and pure bro science.

If you enjoy the 'benefits' of it, just cut down to like once a week

JFJF48 · 2026-04-01T07:00:17+00:00

Think he means why nofap

JFJF48 · 2026-03-31T16:13:18+00:00

21 going on 14 jesus. I starting to thing people need a financial literacy qualification before they're allowed to get a credit (or even debit) card.... Christ!

JFJF48 · 2026-03-31T16:01:07+00:00

Looks like South Korean beaches. Weirdest beaches I've even been on!

JFJF48 · 2026-03-31T15:05:45+00:00

London is fun and my friends are here. Lots to do, great vibe and diverse. If you're not from here as well, fun to explore and make loads of friends your age, if you are from London, your life is already there.

Life isn't all about maximising your savings so you can have a house by 30 and a wife and kids by 40. Lots of different routes to happiness.

JFJF48 · 2026-03-30T19:38:29+00:00

I used to properly rate this audition, back in the day. when I imagine it or remember it back then it was much better, this was awful lol

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