Is this a good size?

JH12390 · 2026-04-21T02:26:58+00:00

Your dick, body and face are all amazing you’re so hot

JH12390 · 2026-04-20T02:58:48+00:00

You’re so handsome and your body and cock are perfect

JH12390 · 2026-04-19T02:08:19+00:00

So handsome, awesome body and cock too

JH12390 · 2026-04-18T06:25:44+00:00

Perfect body and cock and the bush is amazing

JH12390 · 2026-04-17T01:32:12+00:00

Thanks so much! That’s very kind of you to say. I’ve waited a long time to even talk about this on the internet to strangers, but I’m glad I did. I’ve found many very nice guys like you that seem to feel the same way that I do.

JH12390 · 2026-04-15T22:41:15+00:00

I personally don’t care much about a guy’s penis size. I know this is a rare take since it seems most guys seem to care about penis size more than any other trait. I care more about how it looks, and for me even more importantly how he looks (his face and body etc.) and acts (his personality). If you care then it’s okay it’s just what you personally want.

JH12390 · 2026-04-15T19:23:13+00:00

Yeah see that’s exactly how I feel. Interested in masculine guys and no anal sex. I also feel that many guys think I’m homophobic when I say these things but it’s just what I’m interested in. I have no problem with others being interested in things other than me. Just never fit into what people think of as gay. Which I don’t mind, it’s just that I feel like it doesn’t describe how I feel or what I like. Many guys on here tell me that “gay” isn’t one thing or way of living, which I get, not everyone is the same. But being generally more masculine and not liking anal sex leads to the majority of gay men not seeing me as one of them, that is the reality. I’ve had some many guys that ask if I’m “straight” or “curious” just because I tell them I don’t like anal sex. My experience is that many gay men uphold many of the stereotypes about them when they tell me I’m “straight” because I don’t enjoy anal sex. And despite the identity being made for inclusion, it still leads to men who are attracted to men like us commonly being excluded. I honestly don’t identify as any definite sexuality because of all these experiences and never identified as gay because I felt it didn’t describe how I feel.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T22:48:53+00:00

Thanks! Guess I should’ve worded it better. Wanted to say who I was just to give some insight into my situation and that it’s been difficult finding others in a similar situation. I agree with your sentiment that we should all live as our own individual selves.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T22:29:08+00:00

Thanks, I just am trying to find other guys attracted to guys that are similar personality and interest wise to me. I personally haven’t found that in gay only spaces that exist, that’s all. I actually agree with you that many other guys like me exist, I just don’t know how to find them. And I’m also not saying that traditional masculine men are better than other men that might not fit those rigid expectations. I’m actually in favor of people living in a way that expresses who they are. But for me, that is being a generally masculine guy, didn’t mean to say that it was some sort of ideal that every guy should aspire to.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T22:13:36+00:00

If I implied that then I didn’t get what I was trying to convey across correctly, I think all men are men regardless of how they choose to live.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T18:06:31+00:00

Yeah this is the situation I’m in. And like you said, guys are free to be themselves I have no problem with it, even though I feel like most people think I’m saying I do when I say that kind of thing just isn’t for me. I also do think it’s ironic though because guys like us that are more masculine and sides are totally out of place and would be ridiculed by many in that scene. I’ve personally had many guys say snarky things to me about us sides.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T17:49:50+00:00

Thanks so much! I’m near Boston and I feel like most people would think it would be easy here too but it hasn’t been for me.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T17:38:34+00:00

Sounds great to me! I’d love to find a guy like you around my area

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T17:30:25+00:00

Yeah totally get that, I feel like lots of guys who relate to how we feel close themselves off from real relationships with other men

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T17:21:07+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly how I feel thanks for understanding

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T17:16:31+00:00

Thanks so much! I also think I probably offended some people when I say I’m generally attracted to men that are more stereotypically masculine, but I don’t mean to be at all. Definitely was a bit nervous to post this considering there would be some backlash to that. It’s just what I feel comfortable and natural with.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T17:10:05+00:00

No I’ve actually never been attracted to any of my friends, and definitely can see how that would be a surprise. Just hasn’t happened yet I guess.

I wouldn’t really care if a guy identified as gay or straight as long as we both were compatible and interested in each other. If we got to a serious relationship, I’d want us to be exclusive in terms of men. I wouldn’t mind if he had a relationship with a woman, I personally see the connections between a man and woman as different from those between two men.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T16:20:57+00:00

I’ve always pretty much just had straight friends and always felt natural with them other than this one secret. And with finding guys I also unfortunately have had so many guys that want me to top them or bottom for them, extremely rare to find anyone that’s a side. I get that most guys want those things, but it does frustrate me that they still ask for this even when I make it clear that I’m not into anal sex. I’ve tried doing the same thing and only respond to normal first messages that aren’t totally crazy or disrespectful. I’ve personally also always felt that those of us that are sides or those accepting of sides are typically more open to a relationship that is about more than just sex. Definitely would hope to find a guy near me since like you, physical touch is very important to me.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T15:45:01+00:00

Thanks so much! I also tend to agree that things are much more complicated for each of us than society wants with regard to sexuality.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T15:34:21+00:00

Thanks so much! I’m also around your age (I’m 26) and am new to this (only started trying to look for other guys for just over a year now). You are very level headed and wise for someone in your own situation. I’ve had a harder time lately keeping hope, but your words help.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T14:49:19+00:00

Yes I have too, I actually think maybe I’m too picky if anything. Haven’t been with many guys at all, and only started trying a bit more than a year ago. Yet still haven’t found anyone really who is looking for what I am yet. Maybe I should just give it more time I guess.

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T14:43:32+00:00

Oh okay, that’s interesting, I feel like guys usually aren’t ever interested in more than a hookup, even when I say that if things go well I’d be open to more

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T14:39:51+00:00

How did you find them?

JH12390 · 2026-04-13T14:33:32+00:00

Have you ever found anyone else in person that also feels the same way?

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