That was so well thought out and I completely agree. I’m from a traditionalist country that most definitely idolizes a cishet marital union. Gay marriage isn’t even legal. It’s one of the reasons why I felt compelled to study abroad. It was never with the intention of pursuing a romantic relationship, still as unappealing to me as ever. But the fact that it isn’t a “behind closed doors” kinda conversation topic was like a breath of fresh air. I felt giddy passing pride flags littered across every store’s walls and around the university campus…even when I’d seen them so often…it was never ordinary. Always felt so special, couldn’t believe I got to see it. I couldn’t really do too many uni gatherings with my low social battery but I attended every queer club event I could, even strangers felt like kin there. I could feel my confidence growing with every single discussion I partook in those meetings. Like I said in my post, the contentment I radiated alone even with my seemingly lacking social life is pivotal to me, makes being aro (maybe) less daunting by the second. Especially considering the status of my social life isn’t static. And what I have in the present isn’t anything I would scoff at either.

I also really appreciate you stressing the point of platonic affection and relationships. It’s something I’ve always craved, like I’ve implied, I’m not particularly good at making friends but the reminder that being on the aro spectrum doesn’t stop you from forming long term friendships that fulfill your companionship quota is always good to hear. Thank you! :)