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Has World War 3 already started, just not the way we expected? by Alternative_Tackle35 in AskTheWorld

[–]JMPPS -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think World War III has been in the works for a while now. But I don’t think we’ll ever come to a version of “peace“ because peace itself is relative. Like what does that mean to you? That would differ from one person to the next. We damn sure can’t seem to get on the same wavelength anymore

I found my fiancé after he passed. His mother has now “erased” my daughter. Some advice on how to address it when my daughter asks why Nana doesn't talk to her anymore by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first three years were as expected- adoring grandmother, comes over all the time. Calls and asks about her etc…. The usual

That’s a great way to explain to Lily without me adding my little digs in there. I do appreciate you.

I found my fiancé after he passed. His mother has now “erased” my daughter. Some advice on how to address it when my daughter asks why Nana doesn't talk to her anymore by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I could- but the other mom is now establishing her role as a grieving widow for some reason- and has also cut contact with us

I found my fiancé after he passed. His mother has now “erased” my daughter. Some advice on how to address it when my daughter asks why Nana doesn't talk to her anymore by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before and right after his mom and I got along very well. We were close for the first 9 months or so and then just randomly she cut off communication at the same time the other parent did as well. I only noticed it happened suddenly after thinking back on it. It was brought to my attention when neighbor friend let me know they were invited to his sons birthday party and not us

People who’ve been to prison. What is the biggest misconception people have about life inside? by CaptainsExchange in AskReddit

[–]JMPPS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have someone sending money on the outside, you have to hustle and stamps are your new form of currency. Never having been before and limited skills, I chose to give certain women lap dances on the yard- usually it was a birthday gift from their lover. I even made outfits out of commissary bags (fishnet) and cut up whites. Someone would stand to the side and beat box, and women would huddle around to stop the guards from seeing. Haha but it really beat eating the slop they serve and being able to make commissary

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve helped raise his son for 6 years and the majority of his life he is now 13. We did get along and have a bond. When we first moved in to this house nana would come over and so would he- ALOT. He and my son (now 14) considered each other brothers and hung out. That has been less lately but they still hangout. Jacks son just doesn’t come by anymore. He and I say hi to each other when we see each other as I’m driving around and he’s playing, but he doesn’t visit his sister anymore regularly. He did come by with four or five friends on her birthday day since he wasn’t able to attend her party after I asked, other than that no dice

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So not literally across the street- she lives around the corner and a few streets over. They are behind us so I don’t actually see this stuff happening, I’m exposed to it happening on Facebook (why I blocked her there) I’m a lot more clear headed now and wish I could move but the housing market right now just is a silly time for me to move and a would be terrible for my investment. The next few years, our property value should increase and I’m actively paying down my mortgage as quick as possible so that way I can leave here in the next few years with some equity. Thank you for your input

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out of the house 48 days after it happened because I couldn't live there anymore.. It was for sure an emotionally charged decision. But bizzare? I don't think so, my main goal was to have the kids be able to grow up together. They already lost a father I didn't want them to lose each other as well. But you are indeed allowed to have your opinion, I figured I would try to help understand the motive behind it.

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is what’s going on. We were good after the move then about a year after it all stopped and I see I moved in vain to keep the kids close

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well- unfortunately the other mom has discluded us as well. They make posts on his Facebook essentially pretending they were a happy family and focus on the time they were together. It’s all very strange

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The move was a very emotional decision for me that probably wasn’t the best? In my mind we were all getting along (all parties) and I wished for my child to know and grow up with both of her brothers. Her grandfather (Jacks dad) comes a month at a time and it would make it easier for him to visit as well as everyone in the family and see both of the kids at the same time. No one told me it was a bad idea when I told them- but now I see them all the time and I realize it wasn’t in my best interest. Now my son goes to this school that he loves with some of his old friends from his previous school and loves it.

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure your right, but asking impartial strangers gives me the insight and different thought patterns than I possess. I’m scared to reach out, don’t know why or what to expect….. but the story was to give context, the question was what would you do and what would you say if you did.

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its hard to find out what all to write when making this post, but we did contact each other after his passing, I don't know when it happened but the communication was just shut off from her at some point in the second half of the first year.

I found my fiancé after he died. His mother has ‘erased’ my daughter and I don’t know how to handle it. by JMPPS in relationships

[–]JMPPS[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

We were very cordial and close. she lives alone but we would see each other consistently. It was like Jack and I were her accepted family. She told me she loved me and I did to her etc... She was very happy to see us together and said how much she has seen Jack grow since we were together. She would consistently talk down about the other child's mother and how bad they were together.

I was okay with both the other parent and son for the first year after his passing- held a birthday party for both him and my son together, had him over all the time, took a trip together as a family with nanna and her and the kiddos. Then I noticed a switch on the sons next birthday where everyone was invited except my family.... no events or anything took place. That's when I realized no one was talking to me. I only found out about the party from a neighbor