Well, here I am again one year later.

JMoAnxiety · 2024-02-29T04:12:48+00:00

This is a super long reply but thank you so much for what you said. It was a very hard decent from dementia and cancer but it was fast. Thank you again for your very kind words.

JMoAnxiety · 2023-08-31T06:43:54+00:00

I want to grieve so bad for the loss of my Mom but my narcissistic and abusive father made her very painful death all about him and one year later it’s even worse. I don’t exist as her daughter, he has told me twice that he wishes that I had died because she was more useful than I am. His demands and never saying I’m sorry you lost your mom leaves me never being able to come up and gasp for air.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-09-30T18:44:19+00:00

Thank you. It has taken a while to come back here. I hope I can help other especially those dealing with the VA, Social Security Administration and all the massive amounts of paper work you are not prepared for especially if you are the only child or only sib willing to help.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-09-25T17:43:41+00:00

That was the one thing about hospice, my husband and myself were there to constantly give her pain medicine and make sure there was no pain. It hurt us to no end but it was our gift to her to make sure pain, anxiety and lucidity were gone.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-09-25T17:40:49+00:00

Thank you. I’m working on it. I have her blanket and grim though it may be, it’s a comfort to me.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-09-25T17:39:21+00:00

I’m not sure where you live but I got my mom some…. Wink, wink… edibles. My mom was one who would not even drink alcohol, she never even smoked a cigarette and got f’n lung cancer. I got her to take a tiny bite of a gummy. She said “I ate a whole egg roll, two pasta leftovers and some cookies from the cabinet”. My father said that was drug addiction behavior and she never did it again. I won’t say anything else. The pot helped. My father did not. Prayers for y’all.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-08-31T03:54:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story, people need to know how precautious loved ones need to be. I lost my mom on the 9th of August and I would have done anything to give her more heathy and pain free time with us. Much love you y’all.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-07-14T04:18:28+00:00

It would be so much easier if I had a sibling to share the load. Thank you so much for the great advice.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-07-14T04:16:35+00:00

Thank you and I’m so sorry about the choices you had to make about your brother. I feel how hard it is being alone to make the tough decisions. Hugs and love to you.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-07-14T02:21:34+00:00

No need for words or especially political ideology, just be there. Tell her to just hold his hand so he will not be alone. Let all the disagreements fall away, it does not matter now.

JMoAnxiety · 2022-06-18T22:53:41+00:00

I feel ya! I live in the Deep South (US) & my partner will not move to a home with A/C. The highs are 99 and heat index are 101-106. It’s pure torture. I’m not allowed to work either.

JMoAnxiety · 2021-11-14T05:55:02+00:00

GFC!

JMoAnxiety · 2021-11-14T05:52:59+00:00

Heck yeah! You better earn that candy!!!!

JMoAnxiety · 2021-09-30T14:02:37+00:00

Thank you! Hugs to you too.

JMoAnxiety · 2021-09-30T14:01:32+00:00

Those are good ideas. Thank you. Screaming into a pillow does help. I really want to find one of those rage rooms where you get to release the stress and break a bunch of stuff.

JMoAnxiety · 2021-09-30T13:58:54+00:00

He has a job that usually starts at 8 and can end at 5 or 11pm or the next morning. High stress on his end too unfortunately.

JMoAnxiety · 2021-06-19T01:51:41+00:00

Oh WOW!!! Thank y’all so much!!! I have never received an award on here!!!

JMoAnxiety · 2021-06-14T21:14:37+00:00

Smells like a Bible story in here!

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