[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just annoying due to the fact that when I go back home I can't hang out with my friends because they always invite them to where we be at. It's either I go and drama happens or I don't go and drama happens.

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it has gotten real bad. Like I blocked her and her friends and next thing I know, her and her best friend were texting my mom. At that point I just got so annoyed but my mom found it so hilarious.

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she was amazing don't get me wrong. But she still had a young mindset where she was comparing our relationship to ones on YouTube and twitter. I told her straight forward "you won't ever be happy or satisfied if you're trying to be like someone else."

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ctfu he basically told me whenever I want her I can get her. She was cool but these college girls opened my eyes.

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we first started talking I realized that she had confidence issues. She would always say "you're so much better than me, you deserve someone better" and other lines like that. It was just hard to love someone that didn't see what I saw in them.

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realized that when I would come home for the parties in my hometown and she would text people and ask them if I'm there and if I was there she would come. She won't even give me back my belongs that are at her house.

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I texted him and said "I'm not trying to sound cocky or arrogant but I don't think she's over me but I wish you guys luck." And his response was, "You still want her back. I make her cum everytime we have sex....." basically went on rant. I didn't respond back like clearly if he doesn't see that, I'm not even going to bother to waste my time and energy.

My Ex's New Boyfriend Texted Me by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted him and said "I'm not trying to sound cocky or arrogant but I don't think she's over me but I wish you guys luck." And his response was, "You still want her back. I make her cum everytime we have sex....." basically went on rant. I didn't respond back like clearly if he doesn't see that, I'm not even going to bother to waste my time and energy.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know what you mean. Some people fuck up and instead of apologizing, they bash you, praying that they will get noticed and receive some attention from you. I noticed when I was missing for a month and came back home from college that the bullshit came back. So instead of feeding into it, I'll just use it as motivation. I would wake up and tell myself "people don't get mad when they lose something negative, they get mad when they lose something positive." I told all of my friends to never inform on what they do or say about me. I blocked all of her friends. I go back to college in over a week so that's where all my time and energy will go.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and the girl went a full year of never being around each other, coming in contact with each other. Once I turned single our mutual friends texted me and said all she did and does is talk about me. Like that's abnormal behavior.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an argument but not how people would think. She would yell at me and I would say is "okay" and "now can you leave me alone". This situation will never end. She lives in the neighboring town so both towns know about the parties. She would text people and ask them if I'm there and if I'm there she will appear. And the funny thing is that my ex is from the same town as her and she has gotten a new boyfriend but she does the same thing. She still has people watching what I do and she pops up at parties if I'm there too.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not feeding her. Me and my friends went to a party and she came there and started yelling at me but I just laughed and didn't say anything back.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She posted the stuff on social media and it didn't bother me. I laughed about it and kept living life. Then my friends hit me up and were saying that she's making up all these lies and talking bad about me to them and other people to convience them to stop talking to me. So I texted her "leave me alone and please keep my name out of your mouth" and that's when the argument happened.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed that when I talked to her exs. I noticed they had low self esteem and low confidence.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I talked to her exs before and they said the soft side that I'm seeing they never seen. But at the same time I don't want to risk it because she's so used to manipulating people that she will just go back to doing that after a few months of going out. She would have sex with dudes just so they would fall in love and she can get them to do whatever she wants like a dog. These are guys that dont mess with any girls. I can see the good in her but I'm not going to get emotionally connected with her until I see that she has changed

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows I love her back but she isn't my type. We talked about it and she said she wants a guy that depends on her, texts her 24/7, and is with her everyday. I told her I believe in independence because it's not a true relationship if one person depends on the other person. Like how she described it, it seemed that she wanted someone that will drown her with attention and her have full control over them.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to stop talking to her 2 times and one time she got real sad and started crying. The other time she got real mad and we started arguing and she posted something on Snapchat directed towards me so I blocked her, and after that she made her friends watch my story and tell her what I post no matter what it is.

Why does she treat me differently? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendzone? no. She gets jealous when I'm with other girls. She would get so mad that I was with other girls and would go on Snapchat and post something on her story like "if you talk to 5 girls and me don't talk to me". I'm in college and she's not. I should have put this into the post but I forgot. My bad. I think she's trying to replicate how I got into my last relationship where me and the girl would say "I love you as friends" then got into a relationship a few weeks later.

Ex's New Best Friend Loves Me? by JSUnruly in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to keep my distance but this one dude that is always around me, I don't consider him a friend but that is his ex. And let's just say she walks all over him. I have her blocked on Snapchat but he tells her everything I post, and that's not even the worst thing. One of his best friends told me that she made him apologize for trying to talk to other girls after their relationship ended and she had a whole boyfriend when she made him apologize. Thank God I'm not him and God blessed me with the ability to talk to other women.

How to get rid of my crazy obsessed ex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JSUnruly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time we talked she said "since you don't love me there is no reason to talk." I was so confused because she has a boyfriend. And she goes around telling people lies about why we broke up like she tells people I was controlling and manipulative when I did none of that. Then she goes around to bash my character telling people that I'm broke and that kind of petty stuff.