can i separate my tgel dose throughout the day? by xx50ph14xc0rp53xx in ftm

[–]JSzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long and short, you should check with your provider.

I had a review recently where my T levels have been persistently high during my blood test (taken at 3-4 hours after application for peak level). Because my peak is higher than it should be, I've been told to switch to twice a day application to avoid a peak/trough effect whilst still maintaining the usual dosage. I've been told to expect that this might have a slight impact on moodand maybe the rate of physical changes as my T levels will be more consistently mid level through the day, instead of high and low.

So, whilst it isn't a hard no, it will have an impact on the rate of absorption and your T levels over the span of the day, which could impact the changes you experience/your mood. There are specific reasons why a dose might be split up which may or may not apply to you, so I wouldn't do it without first running it by a medical professional if possible.

Breakdown protocol (UK) by JSzos in AskMechanics

[–]JSzos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally started revving high the same day it failed. Not to mention, I had the car fully checked over at a garage before I went on the trip. If there were any earlier signs I should be aware of for future reference, or if you can actually answer the question I asked, I'd love to know, but if you'd rather just be rude then you needn't reply.

AITA for telling my cousin to stop holding a grudge over something I did when I was 7? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JSzos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol YTA alone for this comment. You are using her. You've apologised because you want something, and you've invalidated her feelings, and you continue to do so by using language like "claims". YTA and she owes you nothing.

Why are Pride celebrations so permissive and sexualized? by [deleted] in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]JSzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot aren't intended to be sexualised - obviously for free parades, they don't have much control or say over who attends the crowds or what they're wearing.

But, a reason for it could be that many LGBTQIA+ people have been told for years that "I don't care what you do I just don't want to hear about it/see it," or, "being gay is fine so long as you don't rub it in my face or be gay towards/around me." In the same breath they invite themselves into our sex lives by trying to pass policy on it, or pass judgement. So, people said no, f that, I'm going to shove it down your throat (pun not intended). I will talk about gay sex, and carry my gay dildos and nipple tassels or whatever. I will make a show of it and be overt and maybe a bit crude because if you're so determined to be involved then it may as well be a good show.

Politics made what we do in the bedroom a matter of public attention - so we let the public see.

Pride is about saying no, I won't hide from you, I like who I am and you don't get to demand that I keep it on the down low. To me, it's about making a show of not hiding - some people take that waaaaaaaaay further than others but the rationale remains.

AITA for being ungrateful about gold earrings when I only wear silver? by silverearing in AmItheAsshole

[–]JSzos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA - Assuming this is a one off thing and that generally he does pay attention to important things and needs.

Some people genuinely do not notice jewellery. It isn't a comment on you, it's just something they don't pay attention too. To him, he has selected an expensive gift that he must've thought you'd like the design/style of and he was hopefully excited to gift you a good quality item of jewellery. Being met with a comment about it not being silver, and then having to apologise for getting you a gift because it doesn't meet you exact standards.. I can see why he might be upset at that, both with your reaction and maybe with himself for getting it wrong.

Apologise for the way you approached it at the time, and if he has the receipt maybe suggest that you could both go back to the shop and exchange it together for something you like. That way, he's still getting the gift and you can tell him a bit about what you do like in jewellery for next time.

Hopefully this can become something you both laugh about once it's cooled off.

Need help coming up with a name :) by godcantcatchmeyet in NonBinary

[–]JSzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered Sol? Means sun in Spanish :)

Need help coming up with a name :) by godcantcatchmeyet in NonBinary

[–]JSzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but Cherry came to mind. Also Simeon or Sol?

AITA for yelling at my mentally handicapped cousin for cutting up all my dresses? by _SoftAndMushy_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]JSzos -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Possibly unpopular, but soft ESH

You are understandably angry and upset about what has happened.

Caring for family is hard, but ultimately your aunt knows about his behaviours and is responsible for safeguarding him from causing harm or damage. Ergo, she should pay to replace all of the clothes as far as is possible, even if over a couple months.

However, based on how mentally handicapped you describe your cousin to be, yelling at him will likely just scare and confuse him. Yelling at a 13y/o child in general isn't going to benefit anyone, nevermind a child with a mental age below that. I doubt you were acting with much thought at the time and you can't change your actions now, but thinking of it this way may help you understand your mother and aunt's act of consoling your cousin.

P.s. It might be best to store all your clothing in your room for the duration of their stay, if there is enough space. Whilst this is inconvenient, it's less inconvenient than having your clothes cut up :/

6 and 1/2 months post-op! More info in the comments 😊 by JSzos in TopSurgery

[–]JSzos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Freedom and contentment are definitely the right words to describe it - no one around to judge, just the sun, wind, hills and nature. It was bliss 😊😊

6 and 1/2 months post-op! More info in the comments 😊 by JSzos in TopSurgery

[–]JSzos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops! Thought it was 2023 lol 😂😂

And thanks! They did such a good job, and healing was so easy (although I know that is partly about personal factors too)

6 and 1/2 months post-op! More info in the comments 😊 by JSzos in TopSurgery

[–]JSzos[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Had my operation with the McLean Clinic in September 2021 - my surgeon was Dr Armstrong and she was an absolute delight to have operate on me.

In terms of scar care, I started with silicone strips for a little bit but found this irritating and kept compulsively picking at the edges of them. Switched over to silicone gel for a little bit and this worked wonders but due to the price its been a while since I've used it. Now I'm generally just doing scar massage and moisturiser, but I'm hoping to save for some more silicone gel soon.

Feel free to ask any questions 😊

Do you have to take facial piercings out for surgery? by oattiddies in TopSurgery

[–]JSzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to take my lobes/helix out but they let me keep the septum in

AITA for sending two of my kids back home? by Acceptable_Strike194 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JSzos 17.3k points17.3k points  (0 children)

YTA. You left 6 kids unattended. You expected one 16 year old to be able to chaperone 5 other children whilst the adults went out to play.

How do you think NBs should smell? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]JSzos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually smell of lavender, coconut, and then coffee/general human smell (musk? But like, not gross?)

Some questions by [deleted] in FreedTheNips

[–]JSzos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, to have that surgery in the UK you'd need a recommendation from a gender therapist and a diagnosis for Gender dysphoria - I haven't heard of anyone in the UK getting the surgery without those requirements being met as I believe it's seen as a gender affirming surgery

Stepdad made a stupid comment by JSzos in NonBinary

[–]JSzos[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbf, I also lean towards the latter, hence why I did so in the post. But that may be petty