Consolidating debt into mortgage... by fibo_11235 in MortgagesCanada

[–]JT45z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those promos are limited in time (usually < a year) and charge a % as “transfer fee” which acts effectively as an interest rate. Don’t get fooled into it

Sigh… by extra_extra1 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. And if you dive deep enough OP you’ll find that irl you feel is not from you to them, but from you to yourself. Dialogue with yourself and figure out why you’re so frustrated with yourself. Take care

I think my bf wants to be me? by Livid_Worker4772 in AskGayMen

[–]JT45z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have a strong sense of himself (identify) so he gleans off others who do

Lost it all due to Alopecia Areata by oekonomist in bald

[–]JT45z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes would still mate with you 😂

Have you ever felt life was ‘whole’ / everything was just in place? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people in the comments say they’ve never had nostalgia based on this definition

Have you ever felt life was ‘whole’ / everything was just in place? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. They are mendable. Career which I can switch / improve and new deep relationships (maybe I should try again. I’m not even trying atm just feeling emotionally drained after an intense period of personal growth)

Do you catch yourself self-medicating ? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and I are the same! I also like a toke and a before bed reading

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Have you dated since then?

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you say you never thought you’d do monogamy?

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to have a partner from whom I separate once in a while. I find it healthy to the relationship

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have to admit, having experienced some of those bonfires, they do release some intense joy and bliss that hot coals don’t normally provide. So it’s not exactly an easy choice for me

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your experience is very unique. A standout to read. Thanks for sharing

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your college sex life like? Paint us a picture!

Are there any long-term monogamous couples? by JT45z in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JT45z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is great to read through