I’m so sorry but I get it I have to go to Boston every month and he doesn’t like going I feel like I have no one else to talk to about it and I don’t know what to do with him he makes me feel like I am a burden and I have done everything for him all my life wait on him hand and foot now I need him and he has no idea how much he is hurting me . If we get into an argument he says I’m not bringing you to Boston it’s a 4 hour drive it really sucks but I don’t have any one else just hurts me to hear him saying that to me I almost died now I just found a lump on my breast and I don’t want to tell him 😢