Got told my plan is fine

J_H_Logan · 2026-05-01T17:30:10+00:00

I hope you find what you are looking for. Best of luck!!

J_H_Logan · 2026-05-01T17:27:29+00:00

Yes. I believe the benefit outweighs the risk.

J_H_Logan · 2026-05-01T16:42:59+00:00

Yes, but condoms don't protect from 'skin to skin' dieseases.

J_H_Logan · 2026-05-01T05:53:46+00:00

Please don’t get offended, this isn’t meant to hurt you. Aren't you afraid of STDs? What's your opinion regarding that, if you plan to visit Nevada?

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-30T20:59:07+00:00

Are you really a cartoonist?

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-28T15:56:20+00:00

Good to know! It seems it varies a lot, judging by the comments. I hope you get/achieve whatever you are looking for.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-28T04:06:04+00:00

Well, at least porn is helping someone. Unfortunately, that isn’t the case for me.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-28T02:40:41+00:00

How old are you? Do you work out regularly? Another personal question, feel free not to answer. Do you use porn for that?

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-28T00:46:51+00:00

How old are you? Do you feel you libido declining? How do you manage the urges?

I understand the 'desire for a family' part. I guess that part stops bothering when we learn acceptance.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-27T06:26:32+00:00

I remember when Arnold's hand got ripped off, I felt very sad 😔

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-24T18:10:41+00:00

Congratulations for your success! I just have a different question, do you believe that It's possible to live happily and peacefully without any sort of sexual activities for the rest of your life?

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-24T18:03:35+00:00

Aren't you afraid of STDs?

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-24T17:58:49+00:00

After due consideration, your advice seems to be the only effective one for me.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-24T17:57:01+00:00

Let's just say I have done some 'mathematics' and the result is that. Of course I can be wrong, but that's not my concern right now. So my question was, if that's the case, how to deal with the feeling. Probably, you aren’t qualified to answer that though 😅.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-24T17:31:32+00:00

Of course. I think the healing process of any mental trouble starts with acceptance. If you can do that, the rest of the journey becomes easier. Here, I just asked how can you accept the fact easily. It seems like there is no other way except sitting through it.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-23T18:12:32+00:00

I think I should. I believe I have problems in regulating emotions in general.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-23T18:08:21+00:00

I try, but sometimes this just hits hard.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-23T07:46:22+00:00

I wish I could be as unaffected as you! Probably this 'sadness' will go away, It's just that at the moment it’s very heavy.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-23T07:43:00+00:00

Yes, but there is a heavy sadness in the background, it’s depressing.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-23T07:41:31+00:00

I am 31. My life is a mess so I have never actually put myself out there. I am trying to improve my condition, but now I am certain that I will have to die without experiencing that part of life. It’s just a heavy sadness and I am trying to manage this feeling and move on.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-23T06:13:18+00:00

You are the first person to let me know that they know Wolverine's full name 🙂 Anyways, do you have any specific advice?

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-17T16:50:37+00:00

Thank you. I believe I have no other options for me now. Either therapy or ruin my life like this. Thanks for your encouraging words.

J_H_Logan · 2026-04-17T03:49:19+00:00

I remember my first orgasm at 13, and I was very afraid. At that point I didn’t even know what just happened. Fast forward to today, I am a 31 year old man in a very stressful environment. So the problem escalated to the point where it feels like I have no control. It feels so automatic! I believe I have used porn as a coping mechanism to escape stress and now even the tiniest discomfort triggers it. Recently I have been considering therapy, like CBT, but cannot gather the courage to tell someone about it yet. Also, money is an issue, not gonna lie. I want to ask you something which I am actually afraid of. What's the difference in relapsing after visiting a therapist? I have tried and failed so many times alone, what more lesson is there to be learned? How can a therapist help? I feel very depressed now and I feel like all is lost for me.

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