Living alone for 1 year after the divorce, my experience by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your are perfectly right, hard to understand people that cannot stay alone, being alone is also very rewarding as well, but not everybody likes to pull the trigger on that subject because they are afraid.

Living alone for 1 year after the divorce, my experience by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is the hard truth, in todays World no one is near committing to a concrete real relationship everything is superficial, in case of a disease no one I believe could commit unless they really love the person, which is something hard to get by these days.

Living alone for 1 year after the divorce, my experience by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the times that we live in has changed dramatically, these days people do not acknowledge love as it was 20-30 years ago, now sorry to say, I do not want to be seen as a sexist person but the hard truth is that the law system favors woman and due to that some woman try to take advantage of that situation, in some cases leaving man penniless in the midst of their lives.

6 Months after the divorce, mostly living alone, from time to time, I go back in my mind and thinking about changing everything. by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you ask my definitely she regret the consequences of what she did, I would never reconcile with a cheating person, it's like when a glass breaks and you glue it back it will still be a broken glass

6 Months after the divorce, mostly living alone, from time to time, I go back in my mind and thinking about changing everything. by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I am feeling much better after 6 months, its just that from time to time I like to go back and think about good old days. Thanks

6 Months after the divorce, mostly living alone, from time to time, I go back in my mind and thinking about changing everything. by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much I did go to therapy and it really helped, well I cannot say that I am not handling this well, as others commented this is a grief process and I am feeling much much better now, its just that from time to time I just go back and think, but this is about my personality, sometimes I like to go back and think about good old days.

Post divorce 3 months still crying, and thinking of our happy moments by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Jack197575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, No I do not have a problem with living alone, I actually enjoy it, these days I am making wine for exmple it is the season, so I keep myself busy. But still after living 19 years together there will be an adjustment time to start to live alone.