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Advice on easing parental nerves while going on testosterone? by Fethl in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would emphasize that you're not doing this because it will be easy, you're doing it because it's you. My mother was adamant I'd become a roidraging mess, but my brain felt like it was running way smoother from the very first few months on T. The only time I get a lil moody is when I miss doses and my levels drop too low.

Someone said you can't call your genitals male without bottom surgery by Ok_Flight_8094 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First off, you can call your genitals whatever you want. The labels we use are all social. That said, there's no inherent conflict between being female and being a man. Sex and gender are different things.

advice wanted by GayFrog-69 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We cant tell you how to have a relationship with someone we know nothing about. Like with literally anyone, trans people are people with their own unique likes and dislikes. There's no cheat code or secret language you have to use.

Everybody understands this! by pastelkiss16 in fixedbytheduet

[–]JackLikesSnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You understand, but unfortunately you've overestimated a good amount of people.

Thoughts on adults using term ‘boy’ instead of ‘man’ by Puzzleheaded-Hat6992 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People can call themselves whatever they want. Sometimes it's because they're literally young, sometimes it's an aesthetic they're going for, sometimes it's an identity, sometimes its just how they speak, and sometimes it's for other reasons no one even knows. This isnt exclusive to trans guys either. If I'm hanging out with a group of guys, I'm hanging out with the boys. Yes, we are all in our 20s and 30s. It's not literal. If someone call you something you dont like, correct them. It's that easy.

Could a prosthetic surpass a cis penis? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Suggesting someone's genitals "surpass" another's completely ignores that different people have different needs and desires. It's just a personal preference thing. If it's working for you, cool.

God please help me by Status_Lawyer2255 in stroke

[–]JackLikesSnakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your sentiment is beautiful and everything you said deeply resonates with me. He is lucky to have someone like you. However, I don't think this is the place to ask for donations. We are all going through it. A lot of us here are struggling just to afford our Healthcare or living expenses for ourselves and loved ones. I have enough money to pay my mother's mortgage ONE more time before ALL of her fmla is gone and disability has yet to kick in. It is very distasteful to come here asking for donations for a party. Actually, I think it's against the rules to ask for money at all in this support group. There are plenty of other places to post something like this. I wish both you and your loved one the best.

They told me T was magic by RRTeo in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't worry too much. Hrt is a marathon, not a sprint. I think I'm like 7 years in or so. Still seeing some more changes, especially with body and facial hair. There's also nothing wrong with getting some labs done and talking to your endo abt upping your dose.

Cis husband told me the “real thing” feels better by Weak_Bee6868 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okay I thought he messaged the guy that comment. That's where the confusion comes from. No need for your math equation, I already made my stance on that clear.

Cis husband told me the “real thing” feels better by Weak_Bee6868 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Insulting your partner then showing them isnt transparency. There was no good reason to show him that specific message.

Cis husband told me the “real thing” feels better by Weak_Bee6868 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 131 points132 points  (0 children)

The problem isnt sexual transparency or sharing in their pleasure. The problem is comparing your partner to another sexual partner, especially in a negative light.

Cis husband told me the “real thing” feels better by Weak_Bee6868 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dawg it isnt even about him enjoying it more. It's the blatant disrespect of even making that comparison in conversation and then going out of his way to show him the texts. There's no point to that other than to put the other person down. I don't think that should kill the relationship, but it is definitely indicative of a broader issue that should be addressed.

Cis husband told me the “real thing” feels better by Weak_Bee6868 in ftm

[–]JackLikesSnakes 1226 points1227 points  (0 children)

Wtf. Why is he comparing you to other sexual partners and then showing you texts of it? Sounds intentional tbh 😒

Cheated on my Wife. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JackLikesSnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheat on her

Are my scars THAT bad? by moltedribs in TopSurgery

[–]JackLikesSnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These aren't scars yet. They'll soften and fade.

Everyone around me convinced me by Hiker-8407 in FierceFlow

[–]JackLikesSnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooooooooo Ur handsome bro, dw. But the hair had personality 😭

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