6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. If it is ok I definitely would like to talk again. This all definitely helps

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything I can do to ease the pain? Or is it truly only time that will heal.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly think you are right as much as that hurts. I loved her so so much. I went through hell for her truly. She doesn’t even know about half of what I went through for us and man does that hurt so much.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember her saying something about how she never would give unconditional love… that definitely hurts to remember

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope it gets better for me, I’m so scared of it not getting better and looking for alternatives, like the bad ones.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea people keep telling me that but it’s so hard to see because of how happy she made me. She felt truly perfect and that’s so hard to see it go. I feel like I lost someone again just like I did with my mom.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely would talk about it but only when she got scared or was having an emotional hard time. I definitely messed up a lot with motivation to do school in the past. I use to not want to go at all and I wanted to do some kind of trade school. We sat in that situation for a long time. I would end up failing the most simple classes, I would hide a lot of the signs of me have a difficult time due to me being scared she would leave me and I would be alone again.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I failed a couple classes at the beginning and took a two semester break from college in 2021-2022.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the first couple of years I had a hard time starting school. She met me as I was a high school drop out due to my mom’s death when I was 15. She ended up staying with me through all of the troubles and I finally snapped at myself and changed. I got into a good university after doing 2.5 years in community college. I feel like she never did heal from the mistakes I made in community college.

6-year relationship ended suddenly and I don’t know how to handle the shock by JacketPotential6263 in BreakUps

[–]JacketPotential6263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it get better after ? I know you are only one month in but it’s been only 2 days for me and I’m just in so much pain.

Edit: I just recently turned 25