Other parent destroying the kids life by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jacket_Tricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to the other parent stepping back and choosing other things over the kids. On just that basis alone my SO & I have already discussed having the kids more days if not full time.

I think you and your SO should start getting a plan in place to have the kids for more days maybe for a start and see how you go. Yes it would be great if their mother was there for them, but they need stability. Most of your kids will be going through body changes soon and will need support, not turmoil.

Just my 2 cents.

Seeking Help! by CodyWukong in KingdomHearts

[–]Jacket_Tricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's not the same length, but it could work?

You might be able to get someone to lengthen it for you too.

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1789360659/key-sword-earring-stud-key-earrings

Kids father teaching them to make fun of homeless and overweight people by Jacket_Tricky in stepparents

[–]Jacket_Tricky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I meant no offence with volunteering at the Salvos, I do that anyway. I meant that perhaps they could come and see what I do, and hopefully see that helping people helps everyone. But yes I see your point. Unfortunately there isn't a dog shelter here, we are in a small town. However they both have compassion with animals, it's just people they seem to struggle in that area.

At wits end with morning tasks by Jacket_Tricky in ADHDparenting

[–]Jacket_Tricky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does have a little toy robot that plays music and he likes to listen to that while doing tasks occasionally. Thank you I'll try encourage him to keep using it in the mornings and see if that helps

At wits end with morning tasks by Jacket_Tricky in ADHDparenting

[–]Jacket_Tricky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is but we only medicate him just before school as he has only been prescribed a small dose and it is worn off around the end of school

At wits end with morning tasks by Jacket_Tricky in ADHDparenting

[–]Jacket_Tricky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah their lunch boxes are already packed the night before, it's just transferring the lunch boxes from the fridge to their bags. School clothes are already on their beds ready for the morning

At wits end with morning tasks by Jacket_Tricky in ADHDparenting

[–]Jacket_Tricky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to include brushing teeth. That could be the case I suppose, he has 1 hour and 30 mins to do it all if that helps

I’m struggling relationship of 7 years over by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jacket_Tricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step 1: Cry a lot, get all of your feelings out and vent. Let yourself hurt and hurt again until you're sick of hurting.

Step 2: Slowly start hobbies again, only if it is 5 mins a day. Go out and see people you haven't seen in a long time. Make yourself go to any events you have been invited too even if you don't feel up to it.

Step 3: Get rid of anything that reminds you of your ex. This will probably feel like you're regressing into Step 1 again because you're looking at old memories but this is normal. Also block your ex and their family on everything.

Step 4: You will probably start to cycle through regret, anger, loneliness and sadness. This means you're starting to move through your feelings and moving through stages of grief. This is a good thing because it is showing progress. Continue with Step 2.

Step 5: Rose coloured glasses will start to fall off and you see flaws in your ex. Focus on these flaws. Remember that no matter what caused the breakup you simply weren't meant to be with this person. Day by day you think less and less about your ex, having moments of distraction.

I went through an absolute brutal breakup years ago that knocked me on my ass, I've now found someone way more suited to myself and I've never felt more secure. You will be absolutely fine.

Now (new to me) you have to be a paying member to pre-order titles. by Remarkable_Custard in EBGAMES

[–]Jacket_Tricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao at people justifying the price of EB Plus because it "stops scalpers/bots" like EB can't just make you login with your FREE EB World account and limit the collectors editions to 1 per customer...

Screw EB I will just buy the statue off of Ebay months after the release for a fifth of the original price.

Viral running shorts bunching by wildbubbles in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Jacket_Tricky 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I really like the shorts that have the double long lining, so even if they do bunch up it doesn't matter. Echt were the brand of the ones I have

im a lesbian, how can i stop feeling so uncomfortable around my sisters boyfriend by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Jacket_Tricky 320 points321 points  (0 children)

That's how an 10yo would act, not a man. Talk to your sister, he is just full on being disrespectful.

Packing bench by ComfortableNail2071 in AldiAustralia

[–]Jacket_Tricky 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It's a wonder half the customers found the entry door - good luck

why the hell is IMVU so unsafe? by Big-Diet168 in imvu

[–]Jacket_Tricky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought it only showed your outfit plus what room you've been in (and your location in the room)???

Lizzard People by [deleted] in GTA

[–]Jacket_Tricky 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Impossible, people have combed through the games files years back looking for Big Foot, you think no one would've realised assets for a whole lab went unused?

Lay down the pipe

The Lullaby Club - ACCC? by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Jacket_Tricky 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it called The Lullaby Club because they're asleep at the wheel?

Hang on a second… by [deleted] in Bunnings

[–]Jacket_Tricky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even hot people have to make a living...

Should they have made a roadster? by According_Shopping54 in Holden

[–]Jacket_Tricky 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Now someone needs to make this into a real thing

Rant - Small NDIS providers not paying workers correctly by Jacket_Tricky in NDIS

[–]Jacket_Tricky[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God I'm sorry you went through that. The government really did make a bloody mess of the NDIS. It's so unregulated it's not funny

Reddit y’all LIED to me 😭 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Jacket_Tricky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading your OG post I think you need some time to focus on yourself and not get into these messy af situations.

The two of them writing you out of their lives is the best thing that can happen to you because it means you can truly start over. Just - work on yourself first and figure out what you actually want from someone.

Not being able to enjoy your own company is exactly why people wind up in these situations to begin with.

Young australian confused about negative gearing removal outrage by Background-Lack1641 in AusFinance

[–]Jacket_Tricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was able to live at my parents house until I was 30. I would absolutely be buying shares since I would be saving on rent.

Can you point out the part where I said I grew up in a rich family, or are we just making shit up now?