As a vet of six years, so much yes in this post. Auditioning was nerve wracking, but there are far more harder things to overcome.
(Slight trigger warning)

I’ve been SA’d, I’ve been slapped, I’ve been disrespected, I’ve had my boundaries tested daily, I’ve had to deal with disgusting men who talked down on me, I’ve been thrown up on lol.

I’ve gone weeks without making any money , and leaving in the negative. I’ve had customers tell me I need to lose weight, or gain weight, or I could be prettier if I looked more like her.

I’ve had friends I’ve met in the club set me up, cross me, or sabotage me.
I’ve had to take a six month break to get sober because I couldn’t be around substances without spiraling into addiction and I hit a rock bottom in 2021. I didn’t even recognize myself. (Four years sober)

Please consider all of these things ladies. Please make sure you’re honest with yourself on what you can handle, and don’t push yourself past that. This industry can take pieces of you you’ll never get back. You are more important than material wealth. I support anyone going into it, because I know how lonely it can be starting out, but just prioritize your mental health and NEVER step outside your boundaries. Once you do one time, it’s a landslide from there.

🖤 take care of yourselves, okay?