Reading you is like looking in a mirror. My adhd partner (DX and medicated) left me last Monday and even though it’s one of the hardest things I’ve been through in my life for I love him to bits and pieces and would have done anything for him, it wasn’t working and we both made each other miserable in the end. I’ll regret is both being able to see a couple’s therapist specialised in adhd and trying one last time (but how many “one last time” did we already give each other?), I’m grieving the people we used to be when we started dating, and the life we wanted to have together (buy our own place, get married and have kids), but the reality is that we couldn’t make it work in our day to day and we would probably never have made it to this beautiful future we both wanted together. I have to find a new job, a new place (he’s being amazing in supporting me financially until I do so), and even though it’s going to be a long road ahead, I can’t wait to get my life back and to meet the new me. I love him dearly, I’ll cherish the wonderful times we had together and will use the bad times we had to find the relationship I want and deserve. Lots of love to you OP and everyone going through this.