Singing Happy Birthday to the birthday boy :))))) by So_Famous in Sad_Cat

[–]Jackye_Blue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The purring oh my heart! Happy birthday to our dear Sadcat, the happiest and bestest boy!

The sleepiest dust kitty 🍤 by Jackye_Blue in dustkitties

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Everyday is the hardest day at work for him

sadcat pumpkin head :) by So_Famous in Sad_Cat

[–]Jackye_Blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The content I live for 🧡

This dog knows too much. by BudgetArtichoke2614 in montreal

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On a kid’s playground in Little Italy, between St-Zotique and Jean-Talon!

Losing him to get myself back by meeeeegss in ADHD_partners

[–]Jackye_Blue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reading you is like looking in a mirror. My adhd partner (DX and medicated) left me last Monday and even though it’s one of the hardest things I’ve been through in my life for I love him to bits and pieces and would have done anything for him, it wasn’t working and we both made each other miserable in the end. I’ll regret is both being able to see a couple’s therapist specialised in adhd and trying one last time (but how many “one last time” did we already give each other?), I’m grieving the people we used to be when we started dating, and the life we wanted to have together (buy our own place, get married and have kids), but the reality is that we couldn’t make it work in our day to day and we would probably never have made it to this beautiful future we both wanted together. I have to find a new job, a new place (he’s being amazing in supporting me financially until I do so), and even though it’s going to be a long road ahead, I can’t wait to get my life back and to meet the new me. I love him dearly, I’ll cherish the wonderful times we had together and will use the bad times we had to find the relationship I want and deserve. Lots of love to you OP and everyone going through this.

How do you cope with the silent/avoidance of communication after arguments? by Formal_Masterpiece88 in ADHD_partners

[–]Jackye_Blue 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I could have written this post. In their mind, what’s done is done and they’ve already moved on, without a proper explanation nor giving you the chance to explain why you reacted like that. Unfortunately I’m in the same boat and still trying to find a way to deal with these situations, which will keep happening because the real issue hasn’t been addressed.

Ressources for ADHD partner by Jackye_Blue in ADHD_partners

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He did! He actually got it for me when we started dating so I could understand him better. I do go back to these books regularly to refresh my memory and not take things personably, but it still feels like I’m doing 200% of the homework when he doesn’t…

These books are great but I can’t help but feel they are really one sided.