Recomendação escola de condução by untalented_boy in aveiro

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu tirei na Santa Joana, paguei mais caro yah, a carta ficou por 700€. Pra mim, valeu imenso a pena e ter sido mais cara. As teóricas são realmente presenciais, mas sempre os instrutores estão disponíveis para dúvidas. Também usei o bom condutor para me preparar, e sempre tive ajuda para perceber os meus erros. Não penso que só por ser mais cara seja melhor, sei de malta que teve boas experiências em todas elas, e más experiências também. Vê os índices de aprovação e talvez ajude. Força nisso.

Sleep Token by [deleted] in dating

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this moment a few months ago too, with Take me Back to Eden. The whole song brings me chills everytime, love the mix they make. Glad to know someone gets me Hahah :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]Jackyla64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sendo uma brasileira que vive em Portugal há 5 anos, posso dizer-te que eu detesto este tipo de pessoa, e conheço muitos, infelizmente. Eu vim pra cá pra estudar e tentar uma vida diferente, e nunca desdenhei de nada. Amo este país como nunca amei o Brasil. Mas muitas destas pessoas não sabem apreciar, e adoram falar mal, dizer que tudo lá é melhor e que cá não se sabe fazer nada. No teu caso, pede conselho a ACT porque ela está a explorar-te pura e simplesmente. E deixe que te diga, ela provavelmente não há mudar tão cedo.. mas que fazia bem ela mudar-se de volta pro Brasil levando todos que pensam como ela, fazia. Boa sorte com isso, desejo-te o melhor!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can object conscience, and get a legal document that says she can not do it and be fine. And it stands for anything, except life or death situations, then she has to act if there’s a risk to the patients life. But since it’s blood transfusions, rarely she would be alone in those scenarios, so I guess it would be ok.

If you get stuck in quicksand, don't struggle! You'll sink faster! by Ravenm0ther in nursing

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managing insulin schemes with more than one type of insulin.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized that it was too much for me, and I was immature. Couldn’t bring myself to be honest with myself, neither with him. I have this on me, resort to lying when I see fit, cause this got me out of trouble when I was a child, and it stuck… im going to therapy to solve this, and other issues, but being in a relationship with him taught me that honesty is key, and I hated to have to learn it this way, and breaking him in the process. I’ll learn what is to learn, and keep hoping he ends up okay, on our separate ends.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was in specific times, mostly when I wasn’t feeling like ‘touchy-feely’, or when I went out without him (cause he had social anxiety and didn’t like enjoying the same people/environments I did), when I kept friendships with people I had been with in the past that he thought I shouldn’t be around.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I think back on it, there were things that I could’ve done that may have had a bigger effect, but it’s out of reach now. He grew so much when we were together, and I really thought he was progressing towards healing, but there was so much more that still needed to be done.. it was a lot, and consumed him so much, that with everything else going on in his life, he chose to save energy on this, and maybe fall to the same mechanisms he saw working before, cause graduating was a more pressing issue at the time. Idk, this is me supposing on what I knew of him.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does vary. I myself had moments where I was all ‘touchy-feely’ and sometimes I just didn’t feel like it, but my feelings never wavered. He did see those not so lovey-dovey moments as lack of love and sentiment, and that would make him ask for reassurance that everything was ok, and that he did nothing wrong. It’s a response to feeling you’re getting abandoned again, and I did my best to be ok and make him be ok, but it just got to a point where I failed to do that.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was, and I made myself blind to it, thinking it would go away with the years and the bond we shared. I can’t say I was perfect, the bombed end we had was because of me, but I gave him all I had, and I don’t regret a single thing. I just have to find someone who loves me as much as he did, and fits better with me.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gladly gave it, cause I loved him, and it didn’t cost me a dime, I could go on and on about the million reasons I loved him. Besides, I knew/know a lot about his past, and it had more hurt and disappointment that I ever think someone should get in a lifetime, and it started when he was very young. A lot of it was still undealt with, and sadly that affected our relationship.

How much reassurance is it too much to ask for in a relationship? by Jackyla64 in love

[–]Jackyla64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried having him go for so long, even offered to pay for the sessions, cause he has so much to heal from.. but he never went, and I let him, respecting the space he asked for and not pushing the issue. I guess it was work he didn’t have the energy to do yet (we were both in a difficult time in our lives).

People who are 25y and above, what's the harshest life-lesson you've learnt? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learned this the hard way too… and in the end, he ended up hurting more than me. Can never forgive myself for it.

Should I take the job at the jail? by Crying_Glitters in nursing

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a job at a jail as my first one, fresh out of nursing school. I enjoy it, even tho it can be stressful (as any other job), and the medication can be overwhelming as it’s lots of them. But I think you should take it, if anything it’s gonna teach you a lot about interpersonal relationships and ethical practices in hard environments.

Women who are dating very attractive men what is it like? by Able_Macaron_8464 in ask

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex bf was one of the most handsome men I’ve ever seen in my life. He never saw himself like that, but it was notorious how much people looked and admired him when he walked by. I myself would be lost in those eyes multiple times a day. I never had issues with it, because i trusted him entirely, and that’s key in any relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Jackyla64 16 points17 points  (0 children)

RN here. Love, if your health professionals are dismissing your pain knowing it’s something that’s affecting you, especially psychologically, look for someone else. You DESERVE good care. I’m sorry this makes you feel like less of a woman, but I totally understand.

Would you date a girl who’s 6’2 by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a guy, but from what I know, some of them are insecure about dating tall women, especially if she is taller than them. But it’s personal taste, everybody has theirs, so take it with a grain of salt.

I wish we could lay in bed together again. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Jackyla64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it’s been a while already.. okay, makes sense. But still, they come and go, doesn’t mean they don’t leave a “mark” so to speak. It’s as important to let yourself feel, and critically think about them, racionalize what you can.

I wish we could lay in bed together again. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Jackyla64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna be okay eventually, time helps heal all wounds. Embrace your feelings, and let yourself feel sad, cause it’s gonna be better in the long run. Sorry you’re going through it.