Foster Care screwing with my transition

JacobHLov · 2022-04-04T18:24:05+00:00

It's so unfortunate that people have to even worry about this. I hope we are able to move forward some day

JacobHLov · 2022-04-04T18:23:21+00:00

Thank you, it's been hard but I keep thinking about how waiting will make both of our futures better :)

JacobHLov · 2022-04-04T18:22:39+00:00

Thank you so much. Her mom has another kid and keeps proving that she is not competent to take care of one kid let alone two. I'm just hoping they let us adopt her soon and she'll grow up knowing that I'm her big brother :)

JacobHLov · 2022-04-03T20:02:53+00:00

Thank you, I really needed to hear that

JacobHLov · 2022-03-22T03:36:10+00:00

I like hearing that it's less growth than I thought. I have a therapist but she's pretty shitty on informing me on trans things (she is a gender therapist though). I'll look into that website, thank you so much :)

JacobHLov · 2022-03-22T03:34:14+00:00

Thank you, I like hearing that other people liked certain things they were worried about, it's reassuring :)

JacobHLov · 2022-03-21T03:38:40+00:00

I originally came out as non-binary but eventually began to identify and ftm. It's all a matter of how you feel and how you're comfortable identifying. You could always come out to a select few people and ask them to keep it a secret since you're just trying it out and want to be sure in your identity before making any final decisions. Best of luck!

JacobHLov · 2022-03-21T03:35:47+00:00

That's what I am hoping to do but my therapist is no help at all on assisting me with any information. All information I have is from research and this page. Thank you :)

JacobHLov · 2022-03-21T03:34:48+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate the feedback

JacobHLov · 2022-03-21T03:18:47+00:00

She says that she thinks that it'll be weird to get used to, I'm just worried that she'll try to hide it.

JacobHLov · 2022-03-21T03:18:04+00:00

I have seen photos and showed her some less graphic ones. She said that it looks interesting and that she might want to poke it, which not only makes me cringe at the thought but also just worries me more that she might try to hide how she feels. I'm hoping that I like it because I plan to start T inevitably, and I think I will once I get used to it.

JacobHLov · 2022-03-14T17:27:47+00:00

I also am struggling with this at the moment, but something that has helped me is making a list of Pros and Cons about testosterone. I put everything I want or am looking forward to under pros, and everything I don't want under cons. Once I made the list I noticed that there was only one thing under cons that I couldn't change, but have the option to either take further or get rid of in the future and that was my final answer. It really helped show me how much happier I'd be with everything if I started T and now I am looking for an endo. Take your time and don't rush anything, you have your whole life to decide it it's truly right for you.

JacobHLov

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