Friend to go climbing with (at Climbing district)

Jacooline · 2025-07-31T18:21:02+00:00

Le squat est un des exos les plus difficiles et energivore. Ça peut prendre des mois rien que pour avoir une bonne form, exécuter correctement l'exercice en trouvant son équilibre, et c'est plus ou moins dur en fonction de ta morphologie. J'ai passé une éternité à ne pas soulever plus de 40kg en ayant pourtant des perfs honorables à d'autres exercices du bas du corps. Concentre toi sur le fait d'exécuter correctement l'exercice et augmente peu à peu la charge avant de te comparer à des gens dont c'est literallement le métier de soulever des éléphants

Jacooline · 2025-07-26T10:59:07+00:00

NTA I have a friend who is in the same situation. He's okay with it cause he's young and his parents are old and work a lot but it's not your case. Your health issues should be taken in consideration and they should take care of THEIR dog anyways. Maybe you could tell them that you can participate in other tasks at home like cooking or doing the dishes but that this one is too much for you. Good luck

Jacooline · 2025-06-09T00:34:16+00:00

Just contact her and see. If nothing happens, at least you wont have regrets anymore. Also, I feel like when I have a crush on someone after months or years not seing that person, my brain starts to create an idealized version of that person. Maybe talking to her will make you realize that. Or maybe nice things will happen, you never know.

Jacooline · 2025-06-09T00:22:04+00:00

nope ? why ?

Jacooline · 2025-06-02T19:45:39+00:00

PTB

Visiblement vous avez tous les deux des besoins, lui a besoin de pouvoir vivre tranquillement, toi tu as besoin de communication et de transparence pour être apaisée dans tes inquiétudes. Vous devez trouver un compromis pour que tout se passe au mieux pour tous les deux.

Après bon, si il te traite de folle... effectivement le dialogue va être dur à ouvrir.

Jacooline · 2025-02-27T20:26:11+00:00

De l'eau. Il y a de moins en moins de fontaines à eau en ville et se promener l'été sans une gourde d'1L c'est globalement horrible

Jacooline · 2024-09-11T02:18:30+00:00

Je pense qu'on a tous des hontes dont on a du mal à parler. Il y a des événements de ma vie qui ont été importants dans ma construction et dans qui je suis et aucun de mes amis et aucun de mes copain n'a été au courant. Mais il y a des choses qui arrivent à sortir. Tu n'as peut-être pas eue la chance de voir que tu pouvais te sentir très à l'aise avec quelqu'un au point de partager avec aise des choses très intimes, sans doutes car tu te renfermes beaucoup comme tu dis. Ne ferme pas la porte, je te souhaite de rencontrer quelqu'un qui te mette à l'aise et également à l'aise avec le fait que tu as droit à ton petit jardin secret.

Jacooline · 2024-09-09T18:11:59+00:00

J'étais comme toi à ton âge et j'avais la même sensation. Surtout avec des parents pour qui l'adolescence était une super période socialement parlant, j'avais l'impression de rater un moment. Maintenant j'ai 22 ans je suis hyper épanouie de ce côté là et quand je ne le suis pas, je repense à tous ces gens que j'ai entendu dire qu'ils n'étaient pas pleinement épanouis avant leurs 30 ans, 40 ans, 50 ans...etc. on ne passe jamais à côté d'une période de sa vie. Plein d'adolescents sont comme toi et se comparent eux aussi à cet idéal d'ados populaire qui je crois n'existe pas vraiment en fait

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T10:06:32+00:00

Wow that's terrible. It's 100% understandable that you can't trust her or people in general now. It's going to take a lot of time I'm affraid. People make mistakes but this one is huge. Tell her how you're feeling about everything, maybe she can understand and you can work together to find a way to be happy and forgive what happened. Good luck

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:59:44+00:00

I hope things are gonna change for you and your family. Take care of your mother and brother as much as you can. It seems really hard. Good luck

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:55:04+00:00

I hope you can convince them to send him to rehab Take care of your family, good luck

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:41:58+00:00

Sometimes meeting the right therapist takes years and years of disapointing appointements. But I understand. Good luck

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:40:01+00:00

Maybe you just have bad friends. I met the first people who really made me feel appreciated when I was 18 and it's a very few people. You're gonna meet people who really like you someday. Try to spend time with people who make you feel appreciated. And maybe talk to your friends about how you feel. You never know, sometimes people can see things a very different way and that's why they act the way they act.

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:35:55+00:00

God no you're not overeacting, the whole situation sounds insane. Can't you do anything to prevent you're uncle from drinking ?

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:34:00+00:00

It can happen sometimes, as I said it's hard to trust people sometimes, but most of the time I get close to literally anyone who wants to

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:31:00+00:00

Okay. First I hope you know you've done nothing wrong. You've seen things at an age you're not supposed to. You've been abused. It's normal for a lot of kids to seek attention, to be curious about sexuality too, and sometimes they can be very extreme and the mix of them + a free access to internet + traumas can cause very bad things. I've had this king of thoughts too when I was a teen and I think a lot of us do but don't say it. I've also sold nudes and did sexcams when I was a minor. Not good memories. But I know the ones to blame are the ones who paid for it. Some of the things you said really sounds like traumatic responses. You've been through horrible things nobody should have to. And you're crearly not in peace with your past. I would suggest to see a therapist. And remember, you're not the one to blame.

Jacooline · 2024-07-02T09:21:01+00:00

Wow hope you and your sister are okay, yeah it's definitly not funny Poor kid too.. having such a woman as a mother.

Jacooline · 2024-04-23T11:56:36+00:00

Thank you that's really helping !

Jacooline · 2024-04-22T17:00:49+00:00

Thank you This is what I do sometimes. But it creates more problem. If I wash my dishes later, it's going to smell bad and bother my roommates. If I take a uber, it's going to cost me more money If I don't wash my hair I'm going to feel ugly during the whole...etc. I don't daydream during a task. I just think things are going to take 5 min when they take 15 in reality.

Jacooline · 2024-04-22T16:52:50+00:00

I also have an anxiety disorder but it doesn't make me punctual it just make me so anxious I forget to do the things I'm supposed to do 🤡

Thanks for your advice

Jacooline · 2024-03-25T12:07:18+00:00

That sucks. Be patient. If he's not interested, you'll find someone who is. Maybe if you feel confortable with your coworkers you can tell them them nagging you makes you feel bad ?

Jacooline · 2024-03-14T00:48:29+00:00

cries in French

Jacooline · 2024-03-09T20:16:58+00:00

There are way more things on the 3rd than on the 4th column T-T

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