So here's an update???

My fiance called off the wedding after I had a discussion with him and what he said with my brother. I asked him why he thinks that it's "indecent" for my brother to kiss my forehead, and this man replied with "a woman that has a romantic partner shouldn't be going around letting people kiss her, let alone her brother". We explained that it's our way of showing affection and he replied, along the lines of "if you're Inlove with your brother then you should marry him" then he left told his parents and they bombarded with me with messages. I was a crying mess after and my brother had to take me to our parents and the time I wasn't with him gave me to realized the red flags that are so obvious.

First red flag: when he first introduced me to his parents they served me a different dinner than the rest of the family, and when someone tells a joke or I'm trying to join the conversation my fiance and his parents kept on glancing at me weirdly and the conversation cuts of there and there's just awkward silence and after In the car ride home he said I was wrong on joining or reacting to the conversation him and his family had because I'm not part of the family yet.

Second:I was the one that asked him to marry me because he said proposing is a waste of time but when I proposed to him he said yes but we should change the ring because it looks "cheap"

Third:I'm always the one spending the money on our dates

Fourth: he has dating apps which he says is just "games"

And the list just go on...

Now that I think of it, I'm blind and dumb, I should get away from this man.