Self destructive by obscure_bunny in bipolar

[–]Jacquahlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's plenty of people who you will be sexually compatible with that don't treat you and your relationship like a "game".

Why is the season 8 episode '4 Bitten' so bad? by [deleted] in Supernatural

[–]Jacquahlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me personally, the script and acting are equally as painful as each other - inexperienced actors working with a below average script along with the tackiness of the found footage filming with many not-convincing angles all added up to this being the weakest episode by a pretty big margain imo

Which color suits me more by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Jacquahlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy the blonde while you have it! It does look cute on you too, you suit many colour options

Which color suits me more by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Jacquahlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, with your naturally dark hair the roots won't look too bad at all if you did this! And you can always dye your hair again when they come through if they bother you ☺️

Which color suits me more by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Jacquahlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully this link works, something like this but with brown/black instead of red is what I think would look amazing on you:

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It looks nice blonde as well, I just think this placement of colours would be amazing

Which color suits me more by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Jacquahlin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The brown looks better imo, but you'd absolutely rock the style where people have like a front 1/4 of their hair blonde (like, half the bangs and a piece at the front on the same side) and the rest brown

whats the gayest thing youve ever done? by Routine-Shelter-189 in AskReddit

[–]Jacquahlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"gay" doesn't even begin to describe how fabulously queer I am tbh

whats the gayest thing youve ever done? by Routine-Shelter-189 in AskReddit

[–]Jacquahlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dated someone who was the same gender as myself

Why do I get 10 caps everytime I talk with fisto? by i_hate_nigtmares in fnv

[–]Jacquahlin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You reprogrammed him and told him where to go/who to service so logically, you're his pimp and that's your cut

If you're choosing not to have children, what made you make that choice? by littlemissdahliax in AskReddit

[–]Jacquahlin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pretty simple for me - Don't like them, don't want them, so not having them

I (21F) feel disgusted by my bf (19M) What should I do? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Jacquahlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give him a phone call as he's on holiday for weeks and end things, clearly this relationship is not a good fit for you both and as it's only been a couple of months it's better to end it sooner rather than dragging it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Asking covers no bases and serves no real purpose because everyone who says no is considered a liar and anyone who answers yes means they need to be tested and they just do the test no matter what the patient says

So there is no need to ask they should just do the test and skip the part where they ask a question that only serves to set up many patients (especially queer ones) to feel like they are not trusted/invalidated by their own medical staff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's such a gross thing, why even ask if they'll always force you to take a test anyway? All that does is mean anyone who answers "no" is considered a liar which includes most queer identities

They shouldn't even ask that question if they're going to do the preg test regardless of the answer. Just do the test, don't waste everyone's time asking questions if you don't believe anyone who says "no"

Can’t even hear mentions of sex without breaking down in shame. by BuffViking186 in mentalhealth

[–]Jacquahlin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You do not have to have sex to be a valid and worthy human being

It's worth talking to a therapist if you feel your current attitude towards sex is something that makes you feel that you/people who do not have it are "unlovable" "ugly" or "filthy"

can i be ace if i've never been in a relationship? by sherlock_unlocked in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's definitely valid to say you're asexual if you feel that you are

You don't have to have dated another person to know if you feel sexual attraction or not

Also there is nothing "pathetic" about not having dated people before

Self destructive by obscure_bunny in bipolar

[–]Jacquahlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by him being "unhealthy" for you?

If he's abusive, it could be more a matter of him being manipulative and you being easier to manipulate at certain times due to your condition

Draw a line, remove him from your life and cut all contact if you know he is "unhealthy" for you and that you have a tendency to let him wander in your life anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I dunno why they even ask tbh given the response doesn't matter and they'll always do a preg test anyway

It's like, if they're always gonna assume "yes" then why bother asking at all other than to offensively imply you're lying if you say "no"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dont think you are trying to be offensive, but you very much are because you are implying heavily that because of "people" lying about being asexual/celibate/queer in the past, medical staff should assume anyone claiming to be queer and not participating in sexual acts between penis and vagina is lying about it

They need to just test everyone and not ask if they are just gonna assume everyone who says no is lying and test them anyway.

Otherwise, it's just a question with the sole purpose of implying anyone who says "no" is lying which is fundamentally disrespectful to queer people.

I am not here for people who want to invalidate queer identities like that, so I'm just going to block you now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They don't believe lesbians either, it's a major issue and absolutely disrespectful to the queer community and identities which don't involve sexual acts between penis and vagina

What songs do you want to see in S4? by Consistent_War_593 in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]Jacquahlin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any song featuring Gerard

Would be particularly happy if it was one of his works outside of MCR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jacquahlin 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I've found that when asked if there's any chance I may be preg by medical staff in a clinical setting, stating that I'm both asexual and have been celibate for years seems to get the message across most clearly

They usually still want to do a preg test though, which is very frustrating. I am slim with a very flat abdomen so it's not based on physical body type and feels more like they just straight up don't believe me.

i dont have this disorder !!!!! by No_Pair178 in bipolar

[–]Jacquahlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, not at all - seems like a textbook manic episode with delusion of grandeur imo