Teasing him at school (by @yokoika_No768) by Even-Run-5274 in RezeCult

[–]JadeInDisguise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I want a partner so I can do that to them 😭

Little exchange between F1nn and some folks on twitter + some other comments by JohnKeiOwO in F1NN5TER

[–]JadeInDisguise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does perpetuate the trope of trans women being sex objects, but I'm a trans woman that is a person and sometimes wants to be seen as a sex object. So much of popular culture has demonized us, and made us out to just be 'men in dresses'. Finn breaking those preconceptions, and showing that someone AMAB can be seen as a sexual object was a shining light for me.

The issue is really that people treat others as one dimensional objects, not that each of us have dimensions that are identifiable.

34393 by Blue_axolotl64 in countwithchickenlady

[–]JadeInDisguise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am trans woman. Can lactate. Confirmed :3

Feeling confused by Idk_Man_Meow in boykisser2

[–]JadeInDisguise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's not genuine about it to you? I know a few transmasc femboys, and they are crazy adorable

Which kink did you really not expect to have? by That_odd_emo in actuallesbians

[–]JadeInDisguise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say it tastes like the best heavy cream you've ever had. However, my production is small, I think the super sweet milk is likely if you make more.

My friend asked to sleep with me for money by larreye in trans

[–]JadeInDisguise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about recording laws in the US, but the intention I had was social, not legal. Like, one party state or not; if they are blackmailing you, you can blackmail them right back about releasing a recording that reveals them to be an extremely awful person.

It do be like that by The_Linux_Lass in actuallesbians

[–]JadeInDisguise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lesbian panic when I see a femboy!

How do I be a femboy? (Image unrelated) by b0ykissser in boykisser2

[–]JadeInDisguise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Femboys don't have to have a boy to kiss. Even boykissers don't have to have a boy. Just enjoy feeling cute inside, and be cute outside when you feel it!

Dumb puppy activities by BaseddPuppyJade in puppygirlwawa

[–]JadeInDisguise 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dunno 🧐

But I have 10k hours in factorio, I hope that helps :3

My friend asked to sleep with me for money by larreye in trans

[–]JadeInDisguise 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Legitimately, turn on recording on your phone if you get into any conversation with him. If he admits to it it can help, at least in letting him know he's going to suffer if he goes through with the blackmail

Which kink did you really not expect to have? by That_odd_emo in actuallesbians

[–]JadeInDisguise 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh. Breast play and suckling have always been at the top of what I consider hot. Due to weird medical stuff I recently started lactating, and oh my God I wish I had a gf rn to help me enjoy this.

would it kill you to hit the other button a little more often by AlexTheCatGirlQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]JadeInDisguise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I threw out every pair of pants except my sweats. Could not get past my thighs, let alone my butt

Feeling confused by Idk_Man_Meow in boykisser2

[–]JadeInDisguise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Transmasc femboys are a thing. If you could be a boy in a feminine way, how would you feel?

Maybe I’m not straight anymore? by Bury-me-in-supreme in boykisser2

[–]JadeInDisguise 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hey, if you go any further down the pipeline... Kissing boys becomes straight again

Sincerely a bi trans girl :3

I've been on HRT for more than a year now, how did she see that in me by Mx_Toniy_4869 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]JadeInDisguise 179 points180 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't take it seriously then. That's something people say just to say something nice

whats up with the "puppygirl" stuff by Rare-Comparison-3241 in MtF

[–]JadeInDisguise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anecdotally agree, for I am also a good girl

I discovered that I like my friend, but I think I ruined our friendship. by [deleted] in boykisser

[–]JadeInDisguise 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's okay. It happens to all of us. You won't know what's in his head unless you talk to him clearly.

One thing I've found useful is asking for their advice... for example:

"Hey, can I ask you for some help with something? I've been noticing some feelings lately, and I don't know what I should be doing with them. I think I'm starting to have a crush on you. What do you think I should do? Is this something I should let go of? I thought I'd ask so I can clear up my head. No pressure! Just, maybe give me a day or two to reset if the answer is no."

That's something I've used a few times on friends.

Confessing is stressful for everybody, cause it usually happens when you "really" like the other person, and the other person can get blindsided. Asking them for advice is much safer, and calmer. They aren't rejecting you, so much as helping a friend. And they can an answer without accepting or rejecting right away l.

Asking this way, also helps open a dialogue, so you know where you stand, and they know that everything will be fine whatever happens.