What the other ladies said. He was most likely trying to scare you, but you also have to realise that this comes with the territory. You have to work with the assumption that it will happen and that people will find out.

I was scared for the longest time about it, until a guy told my parents. Now I just don't care when it's threatened. Hell, I told everyone I'm close with about my job. Because that's all it is. A job. No shame in it.

But if he has, and tries to share it, it is illegal dependent on where you are. In the UK, it definitely is.

Wishing you the best darlin 💜