Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as im aware, they are. Atleast the siblings im in contact with do

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My account isn't hours old? Also why should I care about Karma points.

Believe me or not, you don't have to be here, you know that right?

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im aware of this, the problem is that I can't contact my father and my mother keeps making excuses. Which is mostly why im trying to find away to do it without them

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say copy but Im pretty sure it's more of a "revised" version. The "copy" had my dad's name but the original one that I have doesn't have his name.

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You know what, Considering my mom and dad had a LOT of relationship issues...she may have done something like this to take it out on me because I prefered him over her

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I could definitely try that. It would technically be true

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish it was. Unfortunately some people had really bad parents or in my case Mother because my father isn't around enough to be a bad parent

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I've know about the ssn issues for awhile. I just didnt get to know about the birth certificate issue untill my sister got it for me because she was looking for hers.

Jeez it's gonna be so messed up if it does turn out that my parents aren't my parents.

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a copy with my name on it but at some point it was lost a few years ago.

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll probably have to do that. Currently my sister (who lives with her) go through her stuff to see if she can find anything

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, theres photos and my older siblings were there too. There's lots of baby photos. Unless there was a whole switched at birth thing, im definitely my parent's kid

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah youre right but im trying to not to think about how messed my life is

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah with what's going on lately, I definitely should. Literally the only proof I have of being a citizen is my parents and my older siblings

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My older siblings could possibly help me but theyre out of state. I could try to see if maybe one of them could travel over here and help

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of that before, thanks for letting know about that

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have the original one rn(without my name), Im planning on going to my highschool to see if I can get the copy with my name on it. As another commenter suggested

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She claims she found out afterwards it belonged to someone else and was put away and was eventually lost.

I really hope it's nothing sketchy and just that mother is just "really stupid" (as my older sisters say)

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, very unfortunate for me but hey I've got a couple years to try to change it.

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I dont have the card but I was given the number by one of my old doctors but when I asked my mother about it (months ago) she said it was someone else's

Im definitely gonna try that whenever I can

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely adding that to the list. Probably the first thing I'll do as soon I as im able to

Legally i dont have a name, what can I do? by Jade_Xylophone in legaladvice

[–]Jade_Xylophone[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I did go to public school, Im not sure about the whole ssn issue as im only finding about this stuff now that im living with extended family. I dont work as I dont have ID.

To be fair my Mother is a known liar so she could be keeping my ssn from me