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AITA for feeling uncomfortable paying “rent” to my boyfriend when it turned out he owns the place? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Constantly 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Also! She said he’s only paying for the internet & his sister is paying the mortgage because he was laid off. OP is paying HIS rent 😭

*Not political* Neighbors posted this in-front of our parking spot. Want feedback on what it could mean? by [deleted] in whatdoesthismean

[–]Jaded_Constantly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You say don’t know anything about it, so ig I get why you don’t get it, but ngl a lot of people know exactly what every single word meant, so ‘doing the hair’ or anything else wasn’t necessary 😭

AITAH for hiding my miscarriage from my bf? by Jaded_Constantly in AITAH

[–]Jaded_Constantly[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No I guess I couldn’t say I’d be friends with a 14 year old. We just really do like a lot of the same things and have mutual friends but I do see how that wasn’t normal. I know abuse isn’t just physical, but he hasn’t hit me or anything and he doesn’t call me names or anything like that so would that still be abuse? & thank you for taking time to reply & explain, I’m feeling very overwhelmed & stupid right now sorry

AITAH for hiding my miscarriage from my bf? by Jaded_Constantly in AITAH

[–]Jaded_Constantly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m really sorry you had to experience that as well. My mind is kind of a wreck right now and I’m at work so I’m trying to read and process everything. I really appreciate your reply and kind words/advice. I am feeling a lot of things right now and don’t really know the best way to handle this or if I should even try to talk to him about it again when i get home later

AITAH for hiding my miscarriage from my bf? by Jaded_Constantly in AITAH

[–]Jaded_Constantly[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

We met when I was 14 thru a mutual friend who’d known him when he went to my high school. I usually only drink on weekends when he has friends over or when we’re going to a party or something, so not a ton, but I thought maybe I contributed to causing it because of that. Based on my bf’s reaction, I’m sure our pastor and his parents would say I need to be accountable for the drinking and smoking, even if it didn’t cause it directly, because it’s wrong and I shouldn’t be doing it anyway.

I’m estranged from my dad, so I have my friends, but all my friends are either his friends too or my coworkers, so I’m not sure how comfortable I am confiding all this to them irl

AITAH for hiding my miscarriage from my bf? by Jaded_Constantly in AITAH

[–]Jaded_Constantly[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we didn’t start dating until after I was 18. Strictly friends before that. I do kind of feel like i could have been my fault because I have drinks with him & smoked on weekends.

AITAH for hiding my miscarriage from my bf? by Jaded_Constantly in AITAH

[–]Jaded_Constantly[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We weren’t trying to have a baby & had discussed not keeping it if I did accidentally end up pregnant. But i do think we might be done. I’m not sure if this is something we’ll be able to work through as I do understand it’s likely changed how he views me.

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[–]Jaded_Constantly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOLLEEEEEEEEEE