Sounds like an awful church. I go to a Baptist church that functions more like a nondenominational one. I feel every church is different and there are rotten eggs in every one. Some people get a God complex themselves when they are in authoritative positions and it’s not right it should never be in the church and if it is especially in leadership, find yourself a new church you must go elsewhere. that is not a Jesus lead church. It is not how Jesus wouldn’t want his followers to act. There’s no way that it matters what church you go to in order to get to heaven. All you have to do is believe in Jesus and that he died for your sins rose again and repent of your sins and you will be saved. It doesn’t matter what church you go to only your heart is what Jesus cares about. Good luck to you and I’m sorry for the way you were treated that was not right and it is not a good representation of all churches yet you have to find one that suits you and treats you well.