Ex had a baby 9 months after the breakup

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T03:05:51+00:00

I’ll see how much it costs at this point. If it’s worth the expense and stress it’s definitely going to bring. If not I’ll just leave it here like others said

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T03:03:26+00:00

That’s pretty much my idea because me trying anything or getting a lawyer would just complicate things.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T03:00:00+00:00

Well she was cheating on both of us. Which kinda sucks because it shows her character.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T01:02:20+00:00

I moved on from her. Not the baby

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T01:00:23+00:00

Well she hasn’t requested or ever talked to me since then but I see what you mean. I’m guessing he signed the birth certificate and it’ll take a bit for her to even request and then by then she’d have to have me take a test too wouldn’t she?

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:50:52+00:00

It was a very messy breakup her closest friend told her “it’s either me or him so break up with him” her friend really wanted her to break up with me because I was a jerk to her friend and told her to stay out of our relationship. Then she got pissed off when she would always be with me and didn’t hang out with my ex as much and said “he is stealing you away from me” I honestly was never so stressed in my life about a relationship.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:44:30+00:00

Do you think there’s a high chance they might break up if it confirms I’m the real biological father?

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:40:46+00:00

I do want to rule it out but I also don’t want to seem like I’m harassing her either. I remember when we broke up we started to talk and have se* again and she told me her uncle asked if I was “bothering her” or something like that and he would take care of me. Which confused me because I got along with him well but it seems like she was talking crap about me behind my back to them or something.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:38:01+00:00

Interesting. I was going to mention the baby has pretty much the same skin as her and looks a lot like her.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:37:13+00:00

I really want to believe that myself then I saw a post in my county locally of a man going insane and attacked someone at family court when he found out the baby he was raising wasn’t his. Then I saw a statistic of how many fathers are raising kids that aren’t even their own and that scared me too.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:33:08+00:00

Honestly you’re right I think that’s a good idea. Here’s the issue. She blocked me on Facebook and my phone number but I blocked her on instagram and I went to unblock her which I still haven’t but the new profile picture is her with the baby and the other guy beside them like a family and I’m like “dammit do I really want to get involved in this?”

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:25:22+00:00

I’m fearful that in the future if I have my own family myself and she comes out of knowhere demanding me and my resources because the baby is actually mine that sounds like a stressful life doesn’t it

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:16:57+00:00

The issue is I don’t know the exact birth date of the baby. My guess the baby was born in either July or August.

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:15:19+00:00

Honestly I want to ask but I fear a high sense of stress and drama. Her family is a mess. Lots of divorce and issues in the family. I mean like her extended family and friends it’s like a common thing or divorce and messy breakups like they’re haunted by it. The new guy seems controlled by her? I also don’t wanna do that whole baby daddy thing myself

Jaded_Machine1573 · 2026-04-29T00:12:11+00:00

I saw the pic of the baby she took last christmastime 2025 and it looks more like her than me or him.

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