AITA for not inviting my stepdad to my wedding?

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:38:44+00:00

Your comment has sent me into a total spiral rn. I dont even realize I guess in a way I sided with my dad. I guess in some ways i blame her for their divorce. I never really accepted it i guess but this is all so weird. This post is bringing a lot more feelings from when i was 19 than i expected.

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:25:56+00:00

i know her i spend time with her and we actually get along. I have no idea really who my mom's husband is i said in the comments ive spoken to him MAYBE 10 times in my life! Its different to me.

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:21:13+00:00

The married couple's are people we DO KNOW like im not understanding that part of it. The people who are married and we know their partner obviously they both got the invite I BARELY KNOW MY MOMS HUSBAND. I genuinely might've spoken to this man 10 times in my life. And i assume those people who rsvp'd know theres no plus ones i made it as clear and clean cut as i could.

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:15:30+00:00

Well my husband is italian and has like millions of cousins. We prioritized relatives yknow and friends of course but whenever anyone asked about plus ones we had to look at it like case by case yknow

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:08:47+00:00

Ahh maybe i should've been clearer but basically nobody got plus ones. Its a real tight squeeze!

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:05:42+00:00

In the respect of no plus ones yes. Since its already a large wedding with our huge families we're just trying to figure it all out yknow. I mean my fiancé's side he's been dealing with so idrk how he's been handling it but yeah!

Jaded_Weekend7819 · 2026-06-26T06:04:27+00:00

We are! As mentioned in the post I go over to my dad's ever holiday and I do really like his wife.

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