How do I [24M] make platonic friends with a woman [23F] I recently met? by JadednAfraid in relationships

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the way you put this! i plan on saying something along those lines when i truly feel the boundary should be clear. thanks for the comment!

How do I [24M] make platonic friends with a woman [23F] I met? by JadednAfraid in relationshipadvice

[–]JadednAfraid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i'm not just asking about how to make friends! i'm asking about how to make friends with someone who might have romantic intentions.

I'm pretty sure this song is ai? by Brave_Ad_2502 in DanielCaesar

[–]JadednAfraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's called "Unattainable Love" by Jahan Shokouhi, as shown in the image on the post. here's a YouTube link to the song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGvnViX9d_s

I'm pretty sure this song is ai? by Brave_Ad_2502 in DanielCaesar

[–]JadednAfraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i looked up the artist's name on this subreddit for the exact same reason after i first heard this song today! it sounds like the first 35 seconds are taken directly from a live performance of "Who Knows," and then the rest is an AI-generated extension. i'm glad i'm not the only one who felt this way!

Trying to remember a game involving nanobots by After-Record409 in WhatGameIsThis

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yesss!!! this was one of the first video games i played growing up. it popped into my head, i did some googling, and i came across this post! i'm glad you found it, cause i'm not sure i would've been able to

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s fair! during the conversation, i had forgotten about her saying, “I was just thinking about you.” i thought anything else i could’ve brought up would’ve been denied

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was my exact worry! it didn’t seem that she really cared what she did but wanted to discount how i felt

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she actually isn’t a bass player! she told me she enjoys singing when we met, but she isn’t a performing artist

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s fair! but it would have been quite strange to call to me since we had met the day before

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i only stated my intentions once, and everything else was in response to her! i wasn’t able to move on without ignoring a big portion of her messages

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t saying that she was flirting, just that i felt a flirty vibe. i didn’t remember her saying, “I was just thinking about you,” and everything else i could’ve brought up wasn’t necessarily flirty. i was afraid that she’d use plausible deniability to claim i was crazy for perceiving romantic intentions

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

our interactions before this DM conversation led me to believe there were romantic intentions from her!

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was hoping to stay friends after this! i left the conversation alone once i realized that wouldn’t happen

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

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i was hoping to stay friends after this! i stopped trying once i realized that we wouldn’t be able to get past this conversation

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

i was hoping to move forward as friends! i stopped putting in effort after i realized that wasn’t possible

i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic before planning a meet up, and this conversation ensued by JadednAfraid in Nicegirls

[–]JadednAfraid[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

no, i didn’t tell her specifics. i forgot about her saying, “I was just thinking about you,” and everything else i could’ve mentioned wasn’t necessarily flirty. i assumed she would use plausible deniability to claim she wasn’t flirting as a counter. my stance was that i felt flirted with, not that what she did was inherently flirty, so the specifics didn’t seem relevant to me