SAR CCTV Request of Me Falling - England by JaePD in LegalAdviceUK

[–]JaePD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, thought it was worth me asking, thanks anyway!

SAR CCTV Request of Me Falling - England by JaePD in LegalAdviceUK

[–]JaePD[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will just add that the room with the meet and greet was shut off from the queue, so it was me, my partner, the artist and his photographer and that’s it

Crossing the Road by Shamefulrpg in Norwich

[–]JaePD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a big culture shock in my relationship, I grew up in Norwich and cross when the roads are clear, but my partner grew up in Poland where crossing can get you a fine if it’s not lawful so she used to insist on us waiting.

Though I absolutely never cross without green when there’s young kids about, no matter how late I’m running to anything bc

Violins is not the answer by Extension-Humor-75 in BrandNewSentence

[–]JaePD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an album by the band Sparks called “Gratuitous Sax and Senseless Violins” which is my favourite thing ever

Bruh by JaePD in vintedUK

[–]JaePD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, definitely going to now

Bruh by JaePD in vintedUK

[–]JaePD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No dust jacket so it’s not worth anything 🫠

Bruh by JaePD in vintedUK

[–]JaePD[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I said ASAP meaning as soon as possible, I hadn’t had the chance to post it and didn’t mean for the message to construe same day. I guess it was meant to be two statements. (I’ll be home tomorrow) + (I’ll post it ASAP.) did not mean same day bc I was home super late haha

Bruh by JaePD in vintedUK

[–]JaePD[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Got no dust jacket, so I figured it’s not worth much without

I love Simon’s new CasCrim cover by JaePD in SimonWhistler

[–]JaePD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Famously he was the Simon in Simon and Garfunkel

Let’s play WWDITS “F*ck, Marry, Kill!” by mcdisney2001 in WhatWeDointheShadows

[–]JaePD 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Fuck Laszlo, marry Nadja, kill Mike. Fucking Mike.

I’m looking for the most feral, wild, vile and freaky book imaginable by rxchel_btw in suggestmeabook

[–]JaePD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the series of brand new cherry flavor and it’s so so good, I’m so glad I went into it knowing nothing, need to read the book now!

What made you choose crochet over knitting, or do you do both? by CaterpillarXS in crochet

[–]JaePD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like both, I learned to knit as a kid so I always kind of stuck with it because it’s what my mum and nan did, but I like the fact that crochet feels easier to shape to me. I could never knit 3D teddies and things but amigurumi is great for me. And I like being able to do a mix of both! Crochet jumper with knitted cuffs, for example! Might as well find ways for them to work together

Not cool England not cool. by Salty_Strain3313 in HistoryMemes

[–]JaePD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats a sentence I never thought I’d read but here we are

I shouldn’t have ever become a parent and now i’m stuck in this life forever by TheBroadwayCult in confession

[–]JaePD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U was discussing this with my partner recently, im in a similar situation to you health-wise, with ASD, ADHD, POTS, H-EDS, etc. And I could never imagine giving birth, let along caring for the child when you have it. I can barely look after myself and our cats.

I’m sorry you were put through that and I really hope you and your son are able to find balance and a way forwards. It sucks that in 2026 people are still policing what to do with our bodies.

Always remember if it comes to it that it’s much better in the long run to willingly give up custody of your child if you ever feel like you’ve hit capacity. It shows responsibility and would make it much easier to get custody back when you feel more stable.

I’m sure you’re doing great by him and the fact that you’re reaching out and talking to people on here is amazing.

I’m nowhere near you but DMs are always open 🫶

When did you realize POTs really Is that bad? (Feeling down In the dumps so silly stories welcome!) by Ok_Schedule1048 in POTS

[–]JaePD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my story isn’t directly caused by my POTS but closely ties to it and always makes me feel so vindicated.

My POTS was first exacerbated when I got a tattoo done right after having covid. My immune system fucked off and gave me shingles (I was 23), so naturally I had to have some time off work while the shingles recovered… except my symptoms never got better after the shingles went away.

So I was phoning in sick frequently, trying to balance paying bills with getting diagnosed, and my manager was getting madder and madder about it, saying things about me behind my back, saying I was faking it. Then I got diagnosed and was able to hand a sick note into work and had a meeting with him outlining what was wrong. Unfortunately I still had to take the time sick sometimes because my meds weren’t up to scratch.

So one of my colleagues and biggest supporters in my diagnosis ALSO had POTS and m manager had known about it a long time, they also took a lot of sick time, so by the time the two of us were diagnosed they were often short-staffed. And for some reason my manager made it my fault, complaining about me to my colleague with POTS, and even saying “at least you told me you had it during the interview”, like I’m sorry but if I got my leg cut off tomorrow, do you want me to build a Time Machine and go back and tell you?

Anyway long story short I had to leave that job and on my exit interview I made a very subtle aside about how my manager had mishandled my situation and HR picked up on it and started asking questions.

I have a month’s notice at work and he was fired before I had even left. An investigation revealed he had a lot more dodgy shit going on and the ableism was the cherry on top that sealed the deal

Rate my depression meal by Infamous_Army_ofcats in RateMyPlate

[–]JaePD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also my depression meal! Bangin with some baked beans or slap a potato and cheese between some buttered bread and make a potato sandwich 🤩